The trouble with
letting go of this peeve
is that
[men are] doing a good job of escalating it.
In political terms, I'm affected in so far as disaffected men are storming the halls of power and pursuing agendas that will make everything worse for all of us. In interpersonal terms, "I got mine." And in subsequent identity terms, saying and doing nothing feels a bit like pulling up the ladder behind me.
Ok I'm signing off now. Cheers.