Wurmonline (Never really panned out the way I wanted, last I checked years ago no one really pvp'd)
Salem the Game (Not the popular social deduction game)
Eve Online (I hype fixate hard on Eve so gotta stay away from it. Also the P2W was disgusting)
Rust, but it not being an mmo was always a turn off as individual servers seemed to always have weird issues. Maybe it's better now though.
Any suggestions for MMO's I should check out? I wanna be able to be a little guy and built a little house, then join a group and go raiding. No pay to win stuff if it's possible.
Pretty much the same as PLEX in Eve. If that was p2w for you, then this will be p2w for you too.
Actually come to think of it, it's worse in the regard that gold prices have an impact on the game. The lower the conversion rate of gold to silver drops below 1:5000 the higher the global discount on repairs, travel, islands etc.