What are things that bring you joy?

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[–] 27 points 5 months ago (1 child)

Books. This year I’ve caught up with harry Dresden and Carl & doughnut. Piranesi was great. A solid recommend. Sanderson’s Tailored Realities was a nice collection of snapshots into different parts of his universe

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    Dungeon Crawler Carl has to be one of my top two favorite reads in the last year (I'd give it the top spot, but Red Rising was also really good)! It's a struggle to convey just what makes it so good, but it's been a fantastic ride. I can't wait for the next book in May!

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  • [–] 18 points 5 months ago* (5 children)

    During the Covid Quarantine, I took up the guitar again, after having quit playing decades ago. I was terrible back then, but I've practiced every day, and become pretty good.

    My primary objective was to be able to sit and play my guitar good enough to entertain myself, and I've accomplished it. I can fingerpick about 30 songs start to finish, most with my own arrangements, and about 5 originals that I think are pretty good. I've also become a credible lead guitarist as well. Lately I've been getting into recording.

    Nothing is more satisfying than sitting on the front porch at sunset, looking out over the pond across from my house, and fingerpick through some favorite songs, and work on new ones. By playing the guitar instead of eating, I've lost 100 pounds, and I'm still going. It's also been remarkable for my mental health.

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    [–] 15 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Speedball lines of opiates and cocaine.

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    Every morning my two youngest kids (under 5) get up around 7:00 AM. The first thing they want to do is sit on my lap in the recliner while I either read to them or turn on one of their TV shows and we just chill for an hour. We do this every day and it's my favorite part of the day.

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  • [–] 13 points 5 months ago

    Books, good food, a good laugh, and my best friend. These are things that come to mind straight away, but there are certainly many others!

    Helping others, having friendly interactions with people (online and offline), birds landing on your outstretched hand, when a happy dog looks up at you with their happy smiles, when a cat comes to see you after the owner says "She's nervous around strangers",.. A solid sleep and feeling refreshed in the morning.

    A good coffee, a cold drink on a hot day, when a seed has sprouted in my garden, a hefty burrito, a heavy thunderstorm, sunshine after days of rain, the cooling 5PM breeze on a stinking hot day, ibuprofen working on a headache, when you go shopping and one of the first things you try on fits really well so you don't have to shop for hours, the first run down the hill (snow), when you come across a steal of a deal on something you've been wanting,... Too many to name.

    What doesn't bring me joy is when I need cold water from the tap and hot water comes out, or if the empty toilet roll hasn't been replaced. 💀

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago

    I'm a simple man... I see a cat and I pet it. This makes the brain produce the happy juice.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago* (1 child)

    Mostly alcohol, and @urheber@discuss.tchncs.de

    Edit: My cat too

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Toddlers. Seeing toddlers stumbling about and discovering their world is fascinating to me.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago

    Similar but different, we have a kitten and it's funny to see him trying to figure things out. The other day he just stared at our Keurig when I was making coffee. We don't use it that often and I guess he hadn't seen it in action before.

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    Camping, hiking, a crackling fire, being outdoors. Sunshine, snow, rain, winter. Beaches, mountains, forests. Skipping stones on a lake. Pottery, programming, puzzles. Good coffee, good tea, and hot drinks in general (esp. Feuerzangenbowle!). And probably more?

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  • [–] 9 points 5 months ago

    I had a nice little walk today

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  • [–] 8 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Taking the bus. Just sitting and being able to have my thoughts for myself. Also walking.

    Computer games but I really need to play less digital games and more analog games instead. Both have an enormous backlog but at least I have stopped buying more... Digital games.

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    [–] 8 points 5 months ago

    Books, cats, coffee and drawing/painting. I could also say "working", as my job is reading, learning and being amazed (I'm a biologist).

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    [–] 8 points 5 months ago

    Cooking and eating.

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  • [–] 7 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Not having to go to work, quit work at 40, am now 60.

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  • [–] 7 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Oh, hey, OP! I, too, enjoy touching paintings w/ a bone-dry brush and then holding still in the moment. 😶

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    Building LEGO's. Mostly plants and animals but I've got some space and pop culture stuff as well.

    Playing boardgames. Euros, puzzlers, co-op's, card, and classics.

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    [–] 6 points 5 months ago*

    Mostly simple stuff

    An entertaining or educational book, a good philosophical argument, enjoying moments of good health, leisure, and company, the double barrel shotgun in doom, learning a new song or technique on the guitar and using it to create my own stuff, warm socks and cold coffee, figuring out a bug or defect in a program.

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago

    Seeing animals, especially in the wild, especially birds. I like to think of every sighting as good luck.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago

    That moment when you're stuck on a part of your code and you figure it out, write it, test it and it just works.

    It's rare, but when it happens, it feels very good.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago

    My wife and my cats. We got a kitten a few months after my older cat passed and it turned out to be a really good decision (even though he does drive us crazy sometimes, because kittens are basically toddlers with pointy teeth and claws and a 1-meter vertical leap). Not saying kittens are a cure for depression, but it helps.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago

    My wife

    My morning meditation

    My garden

    My cats and dog

    My electric bill- no, wait.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    The feeling that I’ve helped someone or something feel safe and loved. Usually that is cats but in any case it feels nice to know you’ve put more of those foundational good feelings into the world somehow.

    There is a cat in the crook of my arm right now, and I know she feels safe and loved and in return she’s basically radiating mental health at me.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    Man I agree with this so much, almost to a fault. When my dogs were alive, I knew that every minute I wasn’t there with them was disappointing for them. It created insane feelings of guilt in me whenever I left.

    It’s healthier with my cat, since cats decide when they want something on their terms. When my cat wants love, he comes to me and I give it to him. But the idea that I’m improving the life of an innocent life form is so rewarding.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    Music, walking and cats :3

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    Ultra mega hyperfixating on one very specific piece of technology for days on end, then burning out lmao

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    Well organized workspaces and scrap pieces that fit absolutely perfectly.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    Crashing fresh ice. Especially the one that has air underneath. It crackles really nice. It is very satisfying experience.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    Waking up late on weekends, making a good cup of coffee, throwing on a record, and just relaxing before the day gets going.

    Playing an instrument and jamming with others.

    Finishing projects. Making stuff by hand.

    Taking long walks with my dog.

    Reading outside.

    Music and dancing.

    Being amongst nature.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    To crush ny enemies, see them driven before me, and to hear the lamentations of their women!

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  • [–] [S] 6 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 child)

    The things that bring me joy are tech, computers, and games. Computers are amazing, and phones are even more so, and it hurts to watch tech get twisted and used against people.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    Scuba diving. Even if it's just in a local freshwater lake in winter. For a while you get to be a guest in an alien environment where you're almost weightless.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    Baked goods and little cats.

    The little cat let me pick her up and take her under the blankets for a snuggle! It was so nice!!

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    Painting tabletop miniatures

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    Learning something new and connecting with someone

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