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[–] 14 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (6 children)

I'm literally the former. Am I an egg?

edit: /j, because in retrospect, it was slightly ambiguous

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  • [–] 22 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    Order some thigh high socks and see how you feel

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  • [–] 14 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    unironically already have them

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago

    Maybe try other traditionally feminine bits and bobs and see how they make you feel? Its your journey, you might come out of it as a super masc traditional man, you might find you're a femboy, you might find you're a transfemme, or anything in between or outside that spectrum!

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  • [–] 7 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I now go shopping from time to time in skirt, wig, heels and high socks. What now?

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    How cis does that make you feel?

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    Well I got to a conclusion that I am trans, bought HRT another skirt, started voice training, told my friends I prefer gender neutral version of my name, failed to get a good top and now I am doubting myself again, because old things that gave me euphoria no longer do that. Only dysphoria from masculine behavior remained and now that I am reading this I feel dumb.

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  • [–] 16 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Enjoy the introspection. Have been that way all my life. Ask the questions. Explore yourself.

    For me it has ended up being needing actual connection after some neglect. never felt called to anything so I'm what I was born as. But wouldn't have known that if I hadn't tried some shit. You'll know.

    Healing process of self esteem can then make you like yourself. But asking those questions is very important.

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  • [–] 10 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    No one's going to break the prime directive. Go do some research.

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago* (1 child)

    Haha I was only joking. While I am insecure about my looks, I'm fully certain that my self-esteem issues don't stem from any dysphoria.

    CC: @DmMacniel@feddit.org @lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org @TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world

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