β² 353 βΌ eggπ±irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone) submitted 11 months ago by TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 41 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 14 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (6 children) I'm literally the former. Am I an egg? edit: /j, because in retrospect, it was slightly ambiguous permalink fedilink source hideshow 12 child comments replies: [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 22 points 11 months ago (3 children) Order some thigh high socks and see how you feel permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 14 points 11 months ago (2 children) unironically already have them permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [β] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago (1 child) ... So? How do you feel? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 5 points 11 months ago Fully cis without even a trace of feminity /j permalink fedilink source parent [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 11 months ago Maybe try other traditionally feminine bits and bobs and see how they make you feel? Its your journey, you might come out of it as a super masc traditional man, you might find you're a femboy, you might find you're a transfemme, or anything in between or outside that spectrum! permalink fedilink source parent [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 7 points 11 months ago (1 child) I now go shopping from time to time in skirt, wig, heels and high socks. What now? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 11 months ago (1 child) How cis does that make you feel? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago (1 child) Meow :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 10 months ago (1 child) Understandable :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago Well I got to a conclusion that I am trans, bought HRT another skirt, started voice training, told my friends I prefer gender neutral version of my name, failed to get a good top and now I am doubting myself again, because old things that gave me euphoria no longer do that. Only dysphoria from masculine behavior remained and now that I am reading this I feel dumb. permalink fedilink source parent [β] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago I second this advice. permalink fedilink source parent [β] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago (1 child) Enjoy the introspection. Have been that way all my life. Ask the questions. Explore yourself. For me it has ended up being needing actual connection after some neglect. never felt called to anything so I'm what I was born as. But wouldn't have known that if I hadn't tried some shit. You'll know. Healing process of self esteem can then make you like yourself. But asking those questions is very important. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 11 months ago* 2nd this, x100, x1million. It is of course fine and good to ask others for advice... but at the end of the day, you are you, and only you can really truly know, explore, and define you. permalink fedilink source parent [β] lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 11 months ago (1 child) We can only show you the button. You have to press it for yourself. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 12 points 11 months ago whoa, that's a fun site! Was also pleased to find out the existence of https://turn-me-into-a-boy.com/ permalink fedilink source parent [β] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago (1 child) No one's going to break the prime directive. Go do some research. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 8 points 11 months ago* (1 child) Haha I was only joking. While I am insecure about my looks, I'm fully certain that my self-esteem issues don't stem from any dysphoria. CC: @DmMacniel@feddit.org @lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org @TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago Lmao egg irl always goes half and half for me on shitpost. Either jokes or real shit so sometimes I'll miss lol permalink fedilink source parent [β] DmMacniel@feddit.org 7 points 11 months ago That's only for you to discover and to decide. permalink fedilink source parent [β] Ziglin@lemmy.world 1 point 10 months ago The /j made it more ambiguous to me (I read it as /s) permalink fedilink source parent
[β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 22 points 11 months ago (3 children) Order some thigh high socks and see how you feel permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 14 points 11 months ago (2 children) unironically already have them permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [β] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago (1 child) ... So? How do you feel? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 5 points 11 months ago Fully cis without even a trace of feminity /j permalink fedilink source parent [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 11 months ago Maybe try other traditionally feminine bits and bobs and see how they make you feel? Its your journey, you might come out of it as a super masc traditional man, you might find you're a femboy, you might find you're a transfemme, or anything in between or outside that spectrum! permalink fedilink source parent [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 7 points 11 months ago (1 child) I now go shopping from time to time in skirt, wig, heels and high socks. What now? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 11 months ago (1 child) How cis does that make you feel? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago (1 child) Meow :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 10 months ago (1 child) Understandable :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago Well I got to a conclusion that I am trans, bought HRT another skirt, started voice training, told my friends I prefer gender neutral version of my name, failed to get a good top and now I am doubting myself again, because old things that gave me euphoria no longer do that. Only dysphoria from masculine behavior remained and now that I am reading this I feel dumb. permalink fedilink source parent [β] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago I second this advice. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 14 points 11 months ago (2 children) unironically already have them permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [β] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago (1 child) ... So? How do you feel? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 5 points 11 months ago Fully cis without even a trace of feminity /j permalink fedilink source parent [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 11 months ago Maybe try other traditionally feminine bits and bobs and see how they make you feel? Its your journey, you might come out of it as a super masc traditional man, you might find you're a femboy, you might find you're a transfemme, or anything in between or outside that spectrum! permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago (1 child) ... So? How do you feel? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 5 points 11 months ago Fully cis without even a trace of feminity /j permalink fedilink source parent
[β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 5 points 11 months ago Fully cis without even a trace of feminity /j permalink fedilink source parent
[β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 11 months ago Maybe try other traditionally feminine bits and bobs and see how they make you feel? Its your journey, you might come out of it as a super masc traditional man, you might find you're a femboy, you might find you're a transfemme, or anything in between or outside that spectrum! permalink fedilink source parent
[β] KernelTale@programming.dev 7 points 11 months ago (1 child) I now go shopping from time to time in skirt, wig, heels and high socks. What now? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 11 months ago (1 child) How cis does that make you feel? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago (1 child) Meow :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 10 months ago (1 child) Understandable :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago Well I got to a conclusion that I am trans, bought HRT another skirt, started voice training, told my friends I prefer gender neutral version of my name, failed to get a good top and now I am doubting myself again, because old things that gave me euphoria no longer do that. Only dysphoria from masculine behavior remained and now that I am reading this I feel dumb. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 11 months ago (1 child) How cis does that make you feel? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago (1 child) Meow :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 10 months ago (1 child) Understandable :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago Well I got to a conclusion that I am trans, bought HRT another skirt, started voice training, told my friends I prefer gender neutral version of my name, failed to get a good top and now I am doubting myself again, because old things that gave me euphoria no longer do that. Only dysphoria from masculine behavior remained and now that I am reading this I feel dumb. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago (1 child) Meow :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 10 months ago (1 child) Understandable :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago Well I got to a conclusion that I am trans, bought HRT another skirt, started voice training, told my friends I prefer gender neutral version of my name, failed to get a good top and now I am doubting myself again, because old things that gave me euphoria no longer do that. Only dysphoria from masculine behavior remained and now that I am reading this I feel dumb. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 10 months ago (1 child) Understandable :3 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago Well I got to a conclusion that I am trans, bought HRT another skirt, started voice training, told my friends I prefer gender neutral version of my name, failed to get a good top and now I am doubting myself again, because old things that gave me euphoria no longer do that. Only dysphoria from masculine behavior remained and now that I am reading this I feel dumb. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago Well I got to a conclusion that I am trans, bought HRT another skirt, started voice training, told my friends I prefer gender neutral version of my name, failed to get a good top and now I am doubting myself again, because old things that gave me euphoria no longer do that. Only dysphoria from masculine behavior remained and now that I am reading this I feel dumb. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago I second this advice. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago (1 child) Enjoy the introspection. Have been that way all my life. Ask the questions. Explore yourself. For me it has ended up being needing actual connection after some neglect. never felt called to anything so I'm what I was born as. But wouldn't have known that if I hadn't tried some shit. You'll know. Healing process of self esteem can then make you like yourself. But asking those questions is very important. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 11 months ago* 2nd this, x100, x1million. It is of course fine and good to ask others for advice... but at the end of the day, you are you, and only you can really truly know, explore, and define you. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 11 months ago* 2nd this, x100, x1million. It is of course fine and good to ask others for advice... but at the end of the day, you are you, and only you can really truly know, explore, and define you. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 11 months ago (1 child) We can only show you the button. You have to press it for yourself. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 12 points 11 months ago whoa, that's a fun site! Was also pleased to find out the existence of https://turn-me-into-a-boy.com/ permalink fedilink source parent
[β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 12 points 11 months ago whoa, that's a fun site! Was also pleased to find out the existence of https://turn-me-into-a-boy.com/ permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago (1 child) No one's going to break the prime directive. Go do some research. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 8 points 11 months ago* (1 child) Haha I was only joking. While I am insecure about my looks, I'm fully certain that my self-esteem issues don't stem from any dysphoria. CC: @DmMacniel@feddit.org @lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org @TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago Lmao egg irl always goes half and half for me on shitpost. Either jokes or real shit so sometimes I'll miss lol permalink fedilink source parent
[β] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 8 points 11 months ago* (1 child) Haha I was only joking. While I am insecure about my looks, I'm fully certain that my self-esteem issues don't stem from any dysphoria. CC: @DmMacniel@feddit.org @lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org @TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago Lmao egg irl always goes half and half for me on shitpost. Either jokes or real shit so sometimes I'll miss lol permalink fedilink source parent
[β] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago Lmao egg irl always goes half and half for me on shitpost. Either jokes or real shit so sometimes I'll miss lol permalink fedilink source parent
[β] DmMacniel@feddit.org 7 points 11 months ago That's only for you to discover and to decide. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Ziglin@lemmy.world 1 point 10 months ago The /j made it more ambiguous to me (I read it as /s) permalink fedilink source parent