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egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics

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!egg_irl

!egg_irl is for widely relatable memes about questioning one's gender or being an egg (a trans person in denial) as well as other eggy topics.

If you are looking for a place to discuss something specific to you or especially if you need help or are in crisis, we have communities and resources that can support you linked at the bottom of this sidebar.

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No bigotry.
No spam, bots, or vote farming.

Rules on Content:

No reposts.
No personal-life posts, bingo cards, quizzes, selfies, "trans/not trans" lists, picrew, or non-memes.
No visible names or usernames.
Do not post or link to pornography.

Rules on Post Titles and Tags:

Posts must be titled "egg_irl". An emoji or two is OK, but they have to be between "egg" and "irl".
Posts that assume the viewer's gender and/or contain potentially triggering content must be spoilered and tagged at the beginning of the post title. Example content-warning tags that you can copy include the following:
- [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transmasc]
- [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem]
- [CW: Assumes Viewer is Nonbinary]
- [CW: Transphobia]
- [CW: Violence]
- [CW: Weapons/Firearms]
- [CW: Disturbing Imagery]
- [CW: Fictional Egging]
You may optionally include other tags, such as:
- [Transmasc Meme]
- [Transfem Meme]
- [Nonbinary Meme]
- [Gender-Nonspecific Meme]

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If possible, include an image description for accessibility.
Add sources for art.

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If a post is tagged with a specific gender identity, keep the conversation centered on that identity.
You must follow the Egg Prime Directive. You may not push or coerce people into identifying or not identifying a certain way. You must respect them as the gender they claim to identify as. In addition it is extremely in poor taste to make assumptions about other people's identities based on external factors, we understand it cannot be helped but it is best not to as it can affect the way you treat others in noticeable ways. Read more about this decision here.
No Ewwphoria posts. Posts which contain misogyny, misandry, transmisogyny, transmisandry, or enbyphobia for the purpose of expressing euphoria are not allowed here. At best they bring anger to others, and at worst they may trigger people's dysphoria. People who create such posts will have them removed and may be banned at moderator discretion.

Recommendations:

We strongly encourage you to include your pronouns in your account bio so that others know how to refer to you without misgendering you. If you're questioning or unsure of your pronouns, that's totally cool—just say so.

Sibling Meme Communities

!traa (or search for https://lemmy.ca/c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns in your instance if the link doesn't work)

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!transgender (or search for https://lemmy.ml/c/transgender in your instance if the link doesn't work)
!trans (or search for https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/trans in your instance if the link doesn't work)
!ftm (and transmasc) (or search for https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/ftm in your instance if the link doesn't work)
!mtf (and transfem) (or search for https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/mtf in your instance if the link doesn't work)
!nonbinary@lemmy.one (or search for https://lemmy.one/c/nonbinary in your instance if the link doesn't work)
!lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org (or search for https://beehaw.org/c/lgbtq_plus in your instance if the link doesn't work)
!lgbtq_plus@lemmy.blahaj.zone (or search for https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/lgbtq_plus in your instance if the link doesn't work)

Community Resources:

The Trevor Project / 1-866-488-7386 — A US-based crisis prevention and intervention hotline and community
TransLifeLine / 1-877-565-8860 — A US-based trans peer support hotline
The Gender Dysphoria Bible — An in-depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria
Trans Resources — A directory of resources for trans, non-binary, and gender-non-conforming people
LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory — A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers
Trans Resistance Network — A US-based mutual-aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination
TLDEF's Trans Health Project — Advice about insurance claims for trans healthcare procedures
TransLifeLine's ID change Library — A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document

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submitted 11 months ago by TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 22 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Order some thigh high socks and see how you feel

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[–] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 14 points 11 months ago (2 children)

unironically already have them

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[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago (1 child)

... So? How do you feel?

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[–] ColdSideOfYourPillow@piefed.social 5 points 11 months ago

Fully cis without even a trace of feminity /j

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[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 11 months ago

Maybe try other traditionally feminine bits and bobs and see how they make you feel? Its your journey, you might come out of it as a super masc traditional man, you might find you're a femboy, you might find you're a transfemme, or anything in between or outside that spectrum!

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[–] KernelTale@programming.dev 7 points 11 months ago (1 child)

I now go shopping from time to time in skirt, wig, heels and high socks. What now?

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[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 11 months ago (1 child)

How cis does that make you feel?

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[–] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago (1 child)

Meow :3

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[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 10 months ago (1 child)

Understandable :3

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[–] KernelTale@programming.dev 1 point 10 months ago

Well I got to a conclusion that I am trans, bought HRT another skirt, started voice training, told my friends I prefer gender neutral version of my name, failed to get a good top and now I am doubting myself again, because old things that gave me euphoria no longer do that. Only dysphoria from masculine behavior remained and now that I am reading this I feel dumb.

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[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

I second this advice.

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