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Use this science wisely. (feddit.org)
submitted 11 months ago by to c/science_memes@mander.xyz
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[–] 50 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Better yet, ask them what feels good, and establish communication of pleasure. Your partner, regardless of genitals, will have a better time, and so will you!

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  • [–] 12 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    That only works if they actually answer. Sometimes it's just easier to gauge reactions.

    Sometimes they can't talk coherently *wink wink*

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Communication doesn't need to be verbal - and I'm more talking about setting the precedent for communicating about pleasure as a practice. Being able to communicate about pleasure takes you a lot further in mutual pleasure than having a "trick", yknow?

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago (1 child)

    Yeah well, you said to ask, while the actual point is "listen" (and "feel"), that is what I meant

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  • [–] 5 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Well, even if the other person doesn't communicate their answer verbally, you can ask verbally :) it is the most direct way to establish an open pathway for communication.

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