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[–] 91 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Its not about converting the crackpots, its about pushing back on insane bullshit so others are less likely to become crackpots.

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  • [–] 7 points 5 days ago (2 children)

    Agreed. Where do you draw the line between downvoting and potentially feeding the trolls? I'm having a hard time with that. When someone is acting like an ignorant contrarian, I'm inclined to ignore them.

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  • [–] 9 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    I start off with the logic, and when they double down on bullshit and toxicity I just keep spotlighting the terrible rhetoric with no substance. In a "like damn dude, your 3rd grade teacher would be disappointed in your writing" way.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 days ago* (1 child)

    You have to out dumb them and take away their argument.

    Vaccines cause autism? It’s caused by aliens to force us to build another pyramid so they can land their ship here to harvest the squirrels.

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  • [–] 23 points 4 days ago

    I'm not writing to the crackpot I'm responding to. I'm writing to the lurkers on the fence wondering if he has a valid point.

    That might be why I'm so used to replies that look like long-form essays. It takes a lot more words to explain nuance and invite critical thought than it does to shitpost.

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  • [–] 27 points 5 days ago

    You're never going to change their minds. That's not the point. The point is to push back against them. So people who see the interaction will see the rebuttal and the pushback against the insanity. That's the important part.

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  • [–] 15 points 5 days ago

    You don't change the view of the person you are arguing with on the internet, you are putting a red flag so that would-be readers don't fall into the rabbit hole.

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  • [–] 20 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    I've had cases where I've moved the needle. Got someone to move from "I hate communism!!" to "I see where you're coming from. Capitalism has problems, I admit".

    For some people, you need to let them feel heard and avoid being too antagonistic.

    Some people are just trolls, though.

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  • [–] 11 points 5 days ago (2 children)

    Online debate is fun. I don't care if it falls short of solving the worlds problems.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 days ago

    Online debate is fun

    Most online disagreements can hardly be characterized as a "debate". Most of the time it's some contrarian shitlord arguing in bad faith, fishing for gotchas, moving goalposts, refusing to acknowledge reality, and/or pretending your posts mean something other than what they say.

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  • [–] 10 points 5 days ago (2 children)

    I'm not a crackpot, I saw that gnome with my own two eyes they're fucking real and they're plotting against us.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 days ago* (1 child)

    If you saw anyone else hanging around a garden or forest you might say they're gardening, foraging, vibing, touching grass, or waiting until their mortal body is reclaimed by nature. But when it's a gnome they have to be plotting?

    If you treat them like you would any other magical creature, spent some time to get to know them, you'd see just how wrong you were. Spend a little less time pondering your orb and little more time out in the real world.

    Besides, if you examine the statistics, you'd see that skinwalkers are the real problem. Despite making up only... But I can tell you aren't ready to be red potioned on that yet.

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  • [–] 7 points 5 days ago

    Well, the alternative is a bunch of crackpot comments with no pushback (except downvotes) and 3-10x less actually-decent-takes

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  • [–] 6 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    Everyone just wants an echo chamber and the internet is happy to oblige

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  • [–] 7 points 5 days ago

    I've found that, while you can't convince a crackpot of anything, you can study them like a scientific specimen and it can be quite interesting

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  • [–] 5 points 5 days ago*

    ​"Reasoning will never make a Man correct an ill Opinion, which by Reasoning he never acquired.

    • Jonathan Swift, A Letter to a Young Gentleman, Lately Enter'd Into Holy Orders, 1721 C.E.
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  • [–] 4 points 5 days ago (2 children)

    My rule to live by (and this seems to trigger people online for some reason whenever I say it): never engage with comments online. I'll post a comment, but >99% of the time there is no reason to reply. Someone has to make it abundantly clear that they are responding in good faith to warrant a response. My life has been much better since I started doing this and I would strongly recommend everyone try it out.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    The number of threads that I’ve just completely abandoned on .ml when I realize I’m trying to reason with morons is too damn high.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 days ago

    That reminds me, I really must check my inbox

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  • [–] 3 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    In the dark times of late 2023 I had long discussions with Israel apologists on here, now they don’t seem to exist anymore. Question is, if they actually changed their mind or if they just left, and if my comments had anything to do with that anyway ofc.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 days ago

    no, it never does, i mean, these people somehow delude themselves into thinking it might, but... but it might work for us.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    Having a real discussion online seems exceedingly rare. Like where each person really wants to find the flaws in their own position, to either strengthen it or learn why it can't be.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 days ago

    It lives in the internet it lives in the internet oh god help me it lives in the internet

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  • [–] 3 points 5 days ago*

    I wonder if the crackpots ever ask themselves am I the crackpot?

    Asking for a friend

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    Ahh yes the crackpot belief that it is wrong to support a genocide regardless of who is in power.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 days ago

    I never commented much, apart from here and in reddit, when it still was a thing. Currently I try to avoid even looking into the comment section. It' just not worth it.

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  • [–] -1 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    How else are they supposed to virtue signal?

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  • [–] 1 point 4 days ago

    I'm honestly not a big fan of virtue signaling, but maybe that's just me. I just don't think dramatically stating an obviously popular opinion, like you're some sacrificial martyr, really adds much to the discussion. Crucify me in the comments, if you must!

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  • [–] 0 points 5 days ago

    It was never about winning.

    It was always about getting shit off on strangers for self-gratification, and public shaming for reprehensible behaviours/ beliefs.

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  • [–] -1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

    No, I won't.

    Fuck your "reason", people covet their own logical prowess but in reality they didn't come to their views on their own nor their way of seeing things on their own. In fact, it's a weakness borrowed from others, based on flawed methodology and is what got you into the situation you're in now.

    I ain't teaching a class, believe me or don't, I dgaf.

    99% of people are mostly interested in confirming their own myopic view, to the degree that they will commit violence to ensure it. If someone reaches out a hand, I will grab it, but that's exceedingly rare and it's not my day job to fish randos out of their own ignorance un-asked.

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  • [–] -2 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    When you tell lemmy users that teachers joking about shooting their students is bad, actually.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 days ago (1 child)

    That one was probably more about surveillance

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