A friend of mine got really into OSU! and got me to try it. When I complained about the difficulty, he reassured me "Everyone has a hard time when they start out, let me see you play." When I showed him, he said "Oh, man, I was never this bad. Maybe this game isn't for you."
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My first golf swing ever was insanely good. Like, got it on the green, first try. My grandfather was really impressed... Until every swing after that. Never ever as good again.
That first swing, though, that was beautiful.
That's how the sport gets you. You have one great drive or chip or whatever, and you spend the rest of your round/season/life chasing that. Or maybe that's just my relationship with golf lol
First game of real golf I ever played I got a hole-in-one… on the wrong hole. The course wrapped back around next to itself, so when I shot wildly off course it just so happened to land in one of the later holes which was actually immediately adjacent. Still felt nice since everything else I was doing was way over par.
Keep chasing that dragon. Fuck Bill W.
(Don't actually fuck Bill W. For anybody who is a friend of his, let him know this was purely in jest).
I had the same experience with bowling, lol. Everyone was like, wow! Okay, they might be good at this! (or something!)
I think I bowled a 220 on my very first game.
Never did it again. Like, at all. Like, I did worse than everyone else every time after, including the people who were objectively bad at it, lol.
Life is kinda BS sometimes. 🤷
Sucking at something is the first step to getting kind of ok at something.
It's the length of time between the two that varies by person.
Like, I'm a naturally gifted classical musician. I barely practiced and went from sucking at the piano to playing 14 pieces (minimum 4 pages each) in a solo competition with perfect scores in two years. In the 5th grade.
But some people can put in decades of hard work and still not be very good. There are definitely things I know I would see diminishing returns for the effort I put in, like physical artwork.
All that's important is that you enjoy it, though.
As someone who is just learning guitar - Ouch.
That's me and racing video games. I'm naturally weirdly good at them, both arcade style and sim. I don't really like racing games.
I enjoy a good arcade racer for short bursts of time because they're silly and fast and fun. Never could get into the more realistic drivers like Forza since I'm not really into cars. Love the Sonic racing series, actually, they're like Mario Kart except their slow setting is Mario Kart's fast setting. Gotta go fast! I'm pretty mediocre at them, though.
About 15 years ago, I went to a friend’s house to play Mortal Kombat for the first time. I pressed so many random buttons at such a speed that I went undefeated. My fingers had blisters for days afterward. I don’t know what I was pressing, I don’t know why it worked, and I shall never play again so that I remain undefeated
Keep trying. Your weird special talent is out there somewhere!
I think mine might be sharing memes on lemmy
And we love you for it!
I hope you're getting paid very well for this because you sure do a lot of it.
How much Lemmy karma do you need to get onto the paid tier?
I get paid in people's happiness if that counts
Dyspraxia is a bitch, believe you me
Me attempting contact staff (I saw a guy do some tricks once and immediately decided I had to learn. I am absurdly bad.)
Remember to have zero expectations, expect to fail and embarrass yourself. That's how i approach new things and generally am surprised when i'm not complete trash.
I find that I always absolutely fail at everything when first beginning but improve stupid fast once I learn the basics. Then perfection is absolute failure once again.
"I see all the experts saying that you shouldn't do X or that Y is a necessity, but surely I, a person attempting this for the first time, can prove them wrong."
Make your own art/sport where the rules match what you're good at :)
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