You don't like bush, cool, don't sleep with someone who has one.

Should this conversation happen prior to the encounter, then?

This is the real answer. I mean some compromise is normal and healthy in a relationship, but for the most part everyone just do what you are comfortable with and find people who are good with that

This is about people who go out of their way to comment on typically women’s bodies or go out of their way to leave hate comments to women online for having body hair.

This is in the intro of the video.

There's plenty people out there who likes you the way you are.

Hahaha, good one 😂

... now I'm sad 😔

This is the answer in a pragmatic sense, in our day to day. It works, it's fine. The thing is our tastes are not 100% natural and spontaneous, they can be influenced by context, and that context can be problematic. So the extra step these discussions are asking us to do is beyond the pragmatic or useful day to day advice you gave. It is questioning why we have those tastes. "Why don't I like natural cis women?", "Why am I not attracted to black people?", "Why do I refuse to date trans guys?". Etcetera. If we find it is not because of prejudices, societal expectations, 'must be's from unequal societies, or anything like that, then it's an unfortunate coincidence but we can move on. But if we find something like that (those things I listed), it is not necessarily permanent, I think most of the times it can be worked on, changed, and these discussions are also an invitation to do so.

Umm, I do, in fact, decide what I like or don't like. That's true for everybody. But I don't decide what you like, and vice versa. So the issue is still that you can't decide for other people what they're into.

Here's my approach to this, as a dude:

I mean, really I don't have a broad preference for or against bush at all...

... but, if you want me to smooch things down there, please tidy up a bit.

I just don't like having a mouth full of hair.

Don't worry, I will tidy up too, for the reverse scenario, if partner also dislikes mouthful of hair, and! ... this also applies to my facial hair... I'm not that attached to it, and it will grow back, if you want to smooch my face but don't like the beard/stache.

Maybe I am lucky in that I at least I think I look decent both with or without a beard/stache.

This is to me completely fair and reciprocal, and ... really is not that conplicated.