[–] 3 points 2 years ago

Yeah a couple of months ago we were casually doing flips and rolls on fresh snow and rolling down snow piles while laughing.

Occasionally climb up trees for no reason, other times to retrieve geocaches (treasure hunt!)

Last summer kicking ball in the garden with no purpose (but with beer and BBQ)

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  • [–] 11 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Things go viral sometimes and it snowballs. The more famous you are, the more famous you can become. She's also good enough at being an entertainer to keep riding the wave of increased fame, with added resources the bigger she gets.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 years ago (1 child)

    I'm not judging you right now, just curious. Does it also feel that (gay) men immediately sexualize other men? Do you do that? Did you feel it was done to you?

    Was talking to my partner now (he's a man, I'm not). Wondered if hearing straight men objectifying women when you're yourself not into women sounds a lot more jarring and unreasonable, precisely because you're in a way "sober" about women.

    I'm not saying men don't have a huge damaging influence growing up, that a lot can only break with a lot of effort, but with your brother's friends it sounds also like a bunch of horny teenagers posturing to each other. Not ideal behavior and not always harmless, but far from making men emotionless hole-seeking creatures.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    You feel how you feel but just wondering why this feels like such a weird thing to ask for? My own partner told me he enjoys that kind of light touch (also sensorially rather than sexually) and I try to do it whenever I think about it, and it makes me happy that he's enjoying it, and it's not like it's a struggle for me.

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