Between work, a couple of hobbies, gym and recovering from work, I get no time to meet with people in person.

Well ... make time?

If you actually do get a match, they're going to want to go on dates with you and spend time with you, and if you don't make time for them, they're not going to feel like they're important to you, and they'll eventually leave you. Being in a relationship will take time -- if you don't have time to look for a relationship, then you don't have time to have a relationship.

I know 'making time' isn't always easy, but maybe there are ways.

• 'couple of hobbies' -- what hobbies? Maybe you can cut back on them a little to free up some time, just once a week or something? Depending on the hobby and its demographics, you might be able to combine things by meeting people in your hobby -- join some groups for the hobby, do it with others, maybe meet someone there. If your hobbies don't tend to attract people of the gender you're interested in, are there maybe alternate versions of those hobbies that do?

• Work -- Are you working lots of long hours? Can you maybe make ends meet while working fewer hours? Can you maybe find a different job that's less demanding, or maybe closer so you don't lose as much time commuting?

• Recovering from work -- again, a different, less demanding job might be something to look into ... something you don't feel you have to recover from as much.

• Gym -- This is another way you might combine things to meet people in person. Not that you should be chatting people up at the gym very much -- most won't like that. But maybe you could replace some gym days with alternative exercise routines -- ones in a bit more of a social setting? Occasionally replacing a gym day with instead going to a bicycling group or running group or yoga class or dance class or something ... that could give you possible opportunities to meet people while still getting your exercise in.

• And look other places for free time -- I don't know about you, but a lot of people I know spend a lot of time on things like gaming, watching TV, or doomscrolling social media ... even if they don't admit it to themselves. Take a hard look at how you actually spend your time, and see if maybe you have something like that you could cut back on to make time.

Again, if you can't make time to meet people, then you won't be able to make time to actually date and be with the people you meet anyway. If you've got no time for meeting, you've got no time for a relationship either. You might need to look at your priorities and think about steering your life in a direction that gives you more time for this (even if that's detrimental to other things), if being in a relationship is important to you.

If your in the us plenty of people to meet at protests.

Why do you mention your "extreme values" on your dating profile when you suspect that you are sabotaging yourself by doing so?

I think advice on how to find someone who meshes with you is unfortunately going to be somewhat western nation specific. The ways people go about meeting others, and the types of places that people like you and other political outsiders gather.

In terms of what advice I can offer, be open about your beliefs, I know its discouraging to turn people away early, but if you hold these beliefs sincerely its not fair to yourself or the person you're seeing to disguise them. You don't have to put them at the top of your page or anything, but denying that part of yourself will lead to resentment.

I would also say that the apps aren't a great place to go. They're designed to keep you on them more than to find a partner. What you replace this with will depend on your tastes, desires, and environment. Rural towns, have different dating scenes than cities, have different scenes than suburbs and so on. A random internet hookup post was what worked for me, after all the dating apps and other avenues.

Lastly, when you meet people remember that you are here to evaluate them too. Lots of people come into dates only thinking about how to market themselves or conceal their faults. I think that this tendency leads to missing connections. If you are only thinking about how you come off and whether they like you, you might appear desperate, or that you have no standards. Try and remember to find out more about the person you are with and consider if they would make a good partner for you. Being interested and trying to understand them that way should help find more success too.

Good luck and don't give up! There are many compatible people for every one of us, and you won't find them if you give up before you start. You shouldn't make it a life goal necessarily, but welcome it when it comes

If you are happy to chat about your postions maybe consider dropping them from your profile and chatting about them on a date or via text after a match?

I know plenty atheist vegans that don't want kids, but they don't make it thier identity.

Oppsites can attract and compliment.

It's tough. You just keep doing the same thing over and over, and it never works, until one day it does.

The worst thing you can do is be someone you’re not. Because then the only people who like you will only like the fictional version of you. And the people who are looking for the real you won’t know it’s you they’re looking for.

Be yourself, even if that makes you unpopular. As long as you’re trying to be a decent person, someone, somewhere will find you attractive.