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[+] 54 points 2 years ago (9 children)
  • [–] [S] 24 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Impulsively buying stuff, hyperfixating on it for some time, losing that fixation and then having problems with keeping it in your routine as a habit is very much ADHD. ADHD is not 1s ans 0s, how people experience it varies from person to person and the severity of their ADHD. If you didn't have much problems with that in your life then I'm happy for you but I for example wasn't lucky enough with dna and stuff.

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  • [–] 46 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    I very much understand hyperfixation and then moving on but that's not the example given. Buying a new toy, playing with it for two weeks then moving on is basic human behavior, not hyperfixation. Buying a blender then becoming so obsessed with it that you become fixated with it to the point where you think about it constantly, read, research and basically know more about it than could possibly be necessary then poof...gone, is hyperfixation.

    Over diagnosing can lead to over correction. This is how we end up with basically normal people getting pumped full of meds that were not designed for them. Someone reads examples like the one posted, talks to a doctor and the next thing you know are on a cocktail of Adderall and antidepressants, which in turn destroys their ability to sleep, so then they also end up taking Ambien. So on, and so forth.

    I am not minimizing the disruptive effects of ADHD, obviously. I am suggesting that EVERYONE take posts like this with a big grain of salt

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  • [–] 15 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Maybe the people who liked the post also have ADHD and understand that this is a single example of a trend and not a one time thing.

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    [+] 44 points 2 years ago (3 children)
  • [–] [S] 17 points 2 years ago* (5 children)

    ADHD is in big part quirky human behavior turned up to 11.

    Edit: ngl, I'm tired of people just coming here, saying that everyone's like that, getting lots of upvotes and downvoting people when they clarify stuff. :/

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  • [–] 15 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    The problem is that a lot of examples people use are not the ones turned up to 11. I have ADHD but I don't tell people I lock my door walk 4 steps and realize I was thinking about other things and therefore have no idea if I did and have to fix it. Because lots of people do that

    Stuff like re-arranging your room every 2 months due to flashes of inspiration, sure. Getting frustrated because you had the brilliant idea to do two things last night and now you can't decide which takes priority, sure. Endlessly scrolling on Netflix? Nah

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  • [–] 42 points 2 years ago (10 children)

    But the good news is you just kinda learn quite a bit about every hobby you pick up, so people are always impressed with how much random stuff you know.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago* (3 children)

    You remember the random stuff you read?

    It's in and out. I feel that people would actually think I'm smart if I could recall even 2% of all the shit I learn on demand.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    My memory is really, really good. It's my recall that's crap. Feels more like my brain works like RAM and not a hard drive in that my memories are randomly accessed.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    If it was Ram then everything you learned would disappear when you went to sleep. But it would all be easily accessible at all times instantly.

    A hard drive sounds way more appropriate. It's really good at following a single chain of information. It is terrible at randomly accessing information but it's all there. The problem of course is that - people don't talk as one long chain. There are tangents and then the drive must seek which is slow.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Not necessarily in a way where I can effectively demonstrate everything I've learned, but sure, a lot goes somewhere in the back of my memory bank. It's created job opportunities for me in disruptive tech fields because I'm just able to absorb so much in that initial hyperfocus phase, and come across like a subject matter expert on something I just heard about a couple of weeks ago. Sucks when you land in what seems to be a great position and just lose interest in the field though. Good recipe for imposter syndrome

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    [–] 42 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    Joke's on you, I have so many abandoned activities, I can just cycle through them

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  • [–] 17 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Sure, I haven't brewed beer in 3 years but I still have my equipment, so that when I get sick of building guitars, I can go back to brewing beer. But wait, what about the transition from guitar building to tabletop gaming? I guess I can store the brewing stuff and the guitar-building stuff for a year while I go down the TT gaming rabbit-hole. And then there was that quick detour into making kombucha...and then pickling stuff...

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    [–] 19 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    I discovered a great way to reduce the financial burden: join a Makerspace.

    Since joining a local one, I now know:

    • How to use a CNC laser cutter
    • How to use a thickness planer
    • How to use a MIG welder (poorly)
    • And, as of today, how to use a TIG welder (also poorly but, I did better than with the MIG)

    Still to come:

    • How to use a terrifyingly powerful, 2.5 ton milling machine
    • How to use a similar size lathe
    • How to use a plasma cutter
    • How to use a fiber laser
    • How to use a vintage oscilloscope

    And a ton more. Seriously, its awesome.

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    [–] 17 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Doesn't that just come with disposable income?

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  • [+] [S] 8 points 2 years ago (1 child)
  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Oh, I'm pretty sure I have ADHD, but I'm certain my wife doesn't, and she has done this with smoothies and several other things. She doesn't do it as frequently as me, but she definitely does it.

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  • [–] [S] 9 points 2 years ago

    My point was that it's ADHD if you do this a lot and have problems with controlling that behavior. There are totally different ways to achieve what's in the post but it's just a dumbed down joke meant for people do have ADHD and not the people outside the circle.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    If you get bananas and frozen blueberries, you can use that as a base for any kind of smoothie, really. Unless you just don't feel like smoothies, which, valid.

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    [–] 13 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    I have 4 RC cars because of this. They’re amazing and I still use them, but not like I did when the hobby first got injected into my veins.

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    [–] 12 points 2 years ago

    Someone start a community to trade hobby startup equipment once you're bored with it

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  • [+] 10 points 2 years ago
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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    And that's why I never made it as a writer

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  • [+] 9 points 2 years ago (1 child)
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    [–] 6 points 2 years ago

    Shit I was not ready for this personal attack

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago

    Seriously tho, I’m gonna start using the George Foreman grill any day now.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago

    You got yours out of the box?

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    [–] 6 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I love learning I might be on a spectrum from a meme

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