Okay confession time.

I'm three racoons in a trenchcoat

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I must also confess I'm a man, I just like these memes

So you are government robot?

I was joking here, but as long as you are not one of those incels who just straight up hate on all women and men and call them stupid names, and just enjoy shitposting and memes you are good.

I just think FEMCEL MEMES are pretty neat

Move to the US, problem solved.

banned

ur one to talk :3

Oof, that hit me harder than I expected. I imagine love is one of those things that get easier once you've done it once and know how to recognize it, but right now I wouldn't know what it's like at all. I've never in my life been in a situation where I thought I could make a move. I must have missed at least one opportunity, I refuse to believe I've never even stood a chance.

Have you tried group travel? It allows you to interact with new people without any expectations. It's also very low stakes because you don't have to see any of those people again after the trip.

:( I really feel this. I'm so horribly lonely and touch starved, but it's so scary and uncomfortable to try to "put myself out there" and it feels so awkward and wrong to actively flirt with / pursue someone.

I don't know how old you are, but I've been out of school for a few years and it feels like I've missed my opportunity of finding a relationship when I was surrounded by people. Now I can barely leave the house, and even if I did actually meet someone I don't see how people my age who have been in 5+ relationships would even be interested.

Also I've at least been in a "relationship" when I was a kid, and just having a fuzzy memory of what it's like to cuddle and kiss someone makes it feel worse to be alone. So I don't think having something in the past always helps.

Anyway I hope you find love some day.

Preach sister

It's one thing to have someone online say they care about you and intellectually accept it and another to have someone casually hold on and make you feel ok

I hate balancing the mental equation of "how much do I hurt now vs how much could I hurt really trying to find someone and failing" and wondering if I'm even really capable of accepting affection

Being torn by desperately not wanting to hurt people and being terrified they'll like me more than I like them while simultaneously being way too attached to anyone who shows me affection

Knowing odds are very good the more someone gets to know me the less they'll like me

Knowing that if I miraculously find someone I'm compatible with I just don't have the energy to put into a relationship to make it work

Personally, I'm done trying. I know you'll get there though, you have an incrediblely tenacious spirit, of my chats with you are anything to go by

Too real for my horny depressed lemmy

Same here

Same bro some good shit here

Nah, as long as you appreciate the lonely+horny+sad vibe

Femcel is gender neutral

You are welcome just don't be like those reddit incels who hate others mainly women. I'm also non-binary femcel. 💜🫂

I have to confess, I thought this com was about nanobiotech

No shame there. Mules are hard working.

It's ok you can change that