Learn to use this, disable all the apps you don't want but cannot uninstall, download apps from Aurora and Droid.
This allows you to return to the stock OS (too much stuff is missing on Graphene), and still maintain some level of control of your privacy and the security of your device
I like Graphene, I use Graphene, but it does strip too much of the cool stuff you get on stock android for pixels
The trick is to find what you need, what you want and what you're ok without, then decide how to proceed.
If you have more questions along the way, feel free to ask.
Now, let's see how many people blast me for suggesting this 🤣🤣
Good luck.