โฒ 152 โผ What's the biggest "Green Flag" that could be misinterpreted as a "Red Flag"? (midwest.social) submitted 2 years ago by Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml 117 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[โ] roo@lemmy.one -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) Chemistry and attraction. permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 years ago (2 children) How is that a red flag? Did you misread the OP's question? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [โ] essellburns@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Loads of people have habitual attraction to unhealthy relationship patterns. Being drawn to the same kind of asshole over and over can feel like a chemical green flag, wisdom and experience show it's a red flag and things always end the same unhappy way permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago Fair enough, but it's not like you should pursue people you don't find attractive or have any chemistry with. That's more of a self-red-flag that you need to work on yourself before get out there. permalink fedilink source parent [โ] bartolomeo@suppo.fi 1 point 2 years ago When lust was just the appetizer before love, not just empty calories as usual. permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 years ago (2 children) How is that a red flag? Did you misread the OP's question? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [โ] essellburns@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Loads of people have habitual attraction to unhealthy relationship patterns. Being drawn to the same kind of asshole over and over can feel like a chemical green flag, wisdom and experience show it's a red flag and things always end the same unhappy way permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago Fair enough, but it's not like you should pursue people you don't find attractive or have any chemistry with. That's more of a self-red-flag that you need to work on yourself before get out there. permalink fedilink source parent [โ] bartolomeo@suppo.fi 1 point 2 years ago When lust was just the appetizer before love, not just empty calories as usual. permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] essellburns@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Loads of people have habitual attraction to unhealthy relationship patterns. Being drawn to the same kind of asshole over and over can feel like a chemical green flag, wisdom and experience show it's a red flag and things always end the same unhappy way permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago Fair enough, but it's not like you should pursue people you don't find attractive or have any chemistry with. That's more of a self-red-flag that you need to work on yourself before get out there. permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago Fair enough, but it's not like you should pursue people you don't find attractive or have any chemistry with. That's more of a self-red-flag that you need to work on yourself before get out there. permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] bartolomeo@suppo.fi 1 point 2 years ago When lust was just the appetizer before love, not just empty calories as usual. permalink fedilink source parent