Even when you have a neice or nephew without a parent, and the choice is between you taking them in, or the state?

Yes. It's still a choice, even if you think the alternative is unacceptable.

Or when you do everything right, but your protection fails?

Or when your ex wouldn't accept the word "no"?

Absolutely and especially then. Abortion is an option.

Hell, it's not even a remotely exhaustive list - there's a lot of ways where raising a kid is the responsible choice, even when you didn't want to

It's never the responsible choice to force a child to be raised by someone who didn't want to raise kids. Not ever, not even a little bit.

Nobody who comes into a childfeee comm to whine about something a childfeee person said about breeders in their own life gets to say a fucking word about maturity. Sorry you were too stupid to figure out how birth control works or too blind to see how shitty your life as a diaper slave would be, but you don't get to come in here and act like youre fucking superior for it.

Every single person with loved ones understands

putting your needs and desires second for someone else that you care about.

You aren't fucking special just because you fucked raw.

Deciding to have kids is exactly that. A decision. You made a choice that you knew would come with sacrifices, then immediately began spending the next twenty years trying to get people who didn't make that choice to share the sacrifices.

From extra work breaks to coming in sick after your grubby little sticky-fingered germ factory spread the daycare flu around your house so we can all experience it too, you make everyone around you worse off bcs you're entitled to a "village", right? Case in point:

you wouldn't removed about the wheelchair ramps for disabled employees though, would you? how about the uniquely colored TPS reports for the colorblind employees? While we're at it, why not removed about the screen readers for the visually impaired employees?

Absolutely none of those things require me to do extra work to pick up someone's slack. I go to work with a disability every day, I don't need anyone else to cover any of my work for me. That's the fucking difference.

anyone with a brain can have a job, but you have to have perspective and empathy to have kids.

I don't believe you've ever had a job or known any parents if you think either of those things are true. Plenty of brainless dipshits have jobs. Hell, most of them make management. And as a class, most parents perspective and empathy ends just outside their nuclear family. Hence why they think other people doing their jobs while they fuck off for parenting reasons is the same thing as a.fucking wheelchair ramp.