▲ 754 ▼ Bad photoshop not AI (lemmy.world) submitted 2 months ago by Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world to c/memes@lemmy.world 95 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 51 points 2 months ago* (1 child) A man beingg afraid of a vibe is also a HUGE red flag permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago (1 child) If you can't bring more to a relationship than an appliance can, then you've got to work on yourself. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 3 points 2 months ago (1 child) This is a bad take. There's nothing wrong with using toys during sex. There's nothing wrong with your partner using a toy on you instead of their body nor is there nothing wrong with your partner just enjoying witnessing you using a toy on yourself. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves and everything is consensual and safe, who cares? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago (1 child) I fully agree with everything you just said. My point was that if you bring so little to the table that you feel you're in danger of being successfully replaced by a toy, then you need to do some self-improvement. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 0 points 2 months ago (1 child) I guess I can agree with that with the caveat that the self improvement should be understanding that the presence of a toy in sex isn't replacing you at all. Wanting to use a toy with someone is not replacing them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SparroHawc@piefed.world 1 point 2 months ago Using the toy on your partner is potentially part of bringing more to the table, yes. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago (1 child) If you can't bring more to a relationship than an appliance can, then you've got to work on yourself. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 3 points 2 months ago (1 child) This is a bad take. There's nothing wrong with using toys during sex. There's nothing wrong with your partner using a toy on you instead of their body nor is there nothing wrong with your partner just enjoying witnessing you using a toy on yourself. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves and everything is consensual and safe, who cares? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago (1 child) I fully agree with everything you just said. My point was that if you bring so little to the table that you feel you're in danger of being successfully replaced by a toy, then you need to do some self-improvement. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 0 points 2 months ago (1 child) I guess I can agree with that with the caveat that the self improvement should be understanding that the presence of a toy in sex isn't replacing you at all. Wanting to use a toy with someone is not replacing them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SparroHawc@piefed.world 1 point 2 months ago Using the toy on your partner is potentially part of bringing more to the table, yes. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 3 points 2 months ago (1 child) This is a bad take. There's nothing wrong with using toys during sex. There's nothing wrong with your partner using a toy on you instead of their body nor is there nothing wrong with your partner just enjoying witnessing you using a toy on yourself. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves and everything is consensual and safe, who cares? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago (1 child) I fully agree with everything you just said. My point was that if you bring so little to the table that you feel you're in danger of being successfully replaced by a toy, then you need to do some self-improvement. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 0 points 2 months ago (1 child) I guess I can agree with that with the caveat that the self improvement should be understanding that the presence of a toy in sex isn't replacing you at all. Wanting to use a toy with someone is not replacing them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SparroHawc@piefed.world 1 point 2 months ago Using the toy on your partner is potentially part of bringing more to the table, yes. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago (1 child) I fully agree with everything you just said. My point was that if you bring so little to the table that you feel you're in danger of being successfully replaced by a toy, then you need to do some self-improvement. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 0 points 2 months ago (1 child) I guess I can agree with that with the caveat that the self improvement should be understanding that the presence of a toy in sex isn't replacing you at all. Wanting to use a toy with someone is not replacing them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SparroHawc@piefed.world 1 point 2 months ago Using the toy on your partner is potentially part of bringing more to the table, yes. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 0 points 2 months ago (1 child) I guess I can agree with that with the caveat that the self improvement should be understanding that the presence of a toy in sex isn't replacing you at all. Wanting to use a toy with someone is not replacing them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] SparroHawc@piefed.world 1 point 2 months ago Using the toy on your partner is potentially part of bringing more to the table, yes. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SparroHawc@piefed.world 1 point 2 months ago Using the toy on your partner is potentially part of bringing more to the table, yes. permalink fedilink source parent
