It's hard to get away from the hardware companies through. I'm all AMD because they're a little less evil, but they're in the same AI bubble and also currently doing little in terms of innovation since they already have the performance advantage

You should break yourself from any tech stack that isn't open source and either decentralized or federated if it's an online service, regardless of country of origin.

I didn't try it but this claims to have done it: https://www.beeper.com/