Look. We are talking in circles. So let me leave you off with a quote from one of the most famous feminist writers, Bell Hooks.

It is obvious that many women have appropriated feminism to serve their own ends, especially those white women who have been at the forefront of the movement; but rather than resigning myself to this appropriation I choose to re-appropriate the term ‘feminism’, to focus on the fact that to be ‘feminist’ in any authentic sense of the term is to want for all people, female and male, liberation from sexist role patterns, domination, and oppression. – Ain’t I A Woman: Black Women and Feminism, 1981

Like I said. You are stuck in a mind loop called a false consciousness. I was unable to break you out of it this conversation. I hope that this conversation is a seed in your brain that someday, someone else more able to speak your language waters and sprouts into understanding.

Please understand. You are not talking about "women". You are talking about patriarchy. You are complaining about patriarchy. You are complaining about women who are also stuck in the same patriarchy false consciousness as you are, but from the other side. Your talk about women and greed is a complex intersection of patriarchy and capitalism. They effect each other and support each other.

I genuinely hope you take that extra step towards understanding and abandon your misogynist lens. It is doing more harm to you than you know.

You come across as if you never considered that your persoective is just that amd isn't an unbiased reflection of reality.

When people talk about the patriarchy they are talking about the inherent sexism within society that creates all of the issues you are complaining about.

That's not what I am saying. Women and men can rise above those expectations. It's called feminism.

Wrong, you just described patriarchy. You do not know what that word means. You understand it as "men good, women bad". You described an aspect of patriarchy as it effects both women's expectations of men and men's expectations of women.

Of course everyone is responsible for their own actions. However when discussing the way a group of people, especially such a wide one as half the population, you use terms that accurately describe the ideologies at work rather than the group itself. Because to do so builds stereotypes and reinforces false consciousness related to that group. In your case, you are stuck in the male patriarchal false consciousness that is clouding your ability to see that we are saying the same thing.

Women themselves encourage this behavior.

The women whose minds are also enslaved to the patriarchy encourage this. Sounds like we're saying the same thing

With attitudes like I see you displaying, I wouldn't sleep with you either. Listen to yourself and the words you use. That's not thinking for yourself, that's focusing on perceived others' faults in order to take zero responsibility for own faults.