[–] [S] 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Gotcha. So just for future reference, are we not allowed/supposed to ask questions like this in this community? Or is it moreso just looked down upon in here than other communities that are specifically suited for questions like it?

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    I'd hope that's the case, but I mean, look at artificial intelligence. People are widely adapting that even though theres proof that its going to replace tons of jobs in the near future.

    But hey, "ooh shiny technology"

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 2 years ago (2 children)

    That's kind of what I meant. Didn't articulate it well enough. I see it as like a "hey, because my partner is doing this for me, I WANT to do this for them." Reciprocation of effort. Not necessarily just finances. I've been in situations where I felt like I was putting in more effort and it wasn't being reciprocated. So I was wondering if it was fair to expect equal reciprocation in a relationship where both people are able to contribute the same things

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 2 years ago

    It's interesting how much you assumed of my intentions based on me asking an honest question.

    I asked because I had a conversation about this with someone I was saw as a dating potential. We both went to the same school, took the same classes, and make around the same salary-wise. She asked why I haven't dated her yet and it was because she has expectations of a relationship that didn't align with mine.

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    Let's say both the guy and girl make the same amount of money and are both good at and enjoy cooking and cleaning.

    Would it be wrong for a guy to want the girl to give equal contribution financially to the relationship if he's also willing and capable of contributing equally to domestic duties?

    In this same scenario, would it be wrong for him to expect her to cook and clean if he's expected to handle the financial aspects of the relationship?

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