[–] 4 points 6 months ago*

I highly recommend checking out LGBT organizations in your area, some of them have hobby clubs and meetups and whatnots (if there's none in your local area try calling one anyway, maybe there are people interested in being online friends).

The question you asked screams lack of confidence and honestly the best cure would be to add some queer friends.

Of course it's okay to say "when I was a little boy". Why wouldn't it be? Did someone told you it's not okay to say that? Who was it?

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago*

    but my friend corrected me and said i meant “people who get pregnant”, because men (like trans men but still men) can get pregnant

    I think the correct response is to ask that friend why are they trying to pivot the discussion from women abortion. Was she trying to rail you up? Discourage your argument or position by implying you're not good enough?

    Honestly, she sounds like she preemptively gets offended on other people behalf, or like someone who weaponizes "being more PC than you".

    Or she knows a pregnant man (I think the stats were about 100 a year get pregnant, most of them immediately go to a clinic) personally and decided it's the perfect time to use that fact to win the discussion? Or virtue signaling? I mean I'm assuming something is wrong with her, because that situation is random and unexpected.

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  • [–] 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

    I'm all for it. But let's not forget Russia paying reparations to Poland, Estonia, Finland, Romania, Latvia, Lithuania, Moldova, Georgia and Tuva.

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  • submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by to c/selfhosted@lemmy.world
     

    Yo.

    I'm new to the game. Like 2h fresh. I'm fairly technical, being a millennial and a programmer.

    What I want to do, is to have a NAS server I can host movies from and watch them on my phone in my bed - or on my projector.

    Extra points if I could host my ebooks and music there and run a torrent client. Extra extra points if I could connect to it from outside my home network (and stream)

    I've read about about Plex and Jellyfin.

    I'm here to ask you about hardware advice.

    Will QNAP or Synology be enough for my needs and can I install custom software there? I don't really want to create hardware from scratch.

    Google says yes, but I trust reddit and random articles like I trust a fox not to eat chickens.

    Edit: preferably something with WOL that goes silent and fanless when not in use, or something I can shut down with a button

    Edit: thanks everyone, right now I'm thinking of using GMKTec or QNAP and am comparing options, prices and number of issues people have on the internet. I'm not a hobbyist and the less I have to work on it the better.

    Edit: I've ordered GMKTec NucBox G3 Plus 16 GB 1T for 195$ from their site as my starter kit. Should work for my needs.

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