it's funny (not haha funny) you should mention a stroke. I had thought of that honestly. She had a couple of concussions at her job. Once while we were dating, she was knocked out cold. I noticed a few changes after that but nothing that would make me think she would drop her whole life and just move one day without a word. Mostly just short term memory issues. The brain is a weird thing.

My car is a 2009. I'll be keeping it for the foreseeable future. I'm pretty handy, so as long as the engine doesn't wreck itself (interference engine), I'll just keep changing out parts, oil, fluids, etc...

and of course jesus is a white guy. we need some little plastic satans to leave in random places.

radio.garden is a pretty neat project. They have radio stations from all over the world. I also follow some DJs and music nerds on Mastodon.

groove salad and lush have been my go to for years. I just bought some CD's from them too!

Could be an Oklahoma thing. In my state, you can just run it in the local paper if you don't have an address. They have 30 days to respond. OK is pretty backwards when it comes to women's rights though.

met a girl, lovely, funny, just a joy to be around. We dated for almost 3 years. Blissful and regular sexy fun times. Bought her the most beautiful engagement ring. I was going to propose on Christmas. In November of that year, she ghosts me. Blocks me on everything. Left town with her ex-husband and moved to the other side of the country. I was completely floored. Even her parents were like WTF?! So I haven't dated in a while. I have no desire to start over again. Now it's just me and my cat.

Nice! there's also https://www.goodsuniteus.com/

or, idk, just be honest with your spouse...

IT support for a non-profit. We are a small IT dept so I do everything from installing printers to managing our network. I've been at this job for 20yrs. But worked in IT for 25ish.

I use keepassXC for passwords. One database. I organize by category. Shopping. Finance. Email. etc...
Then I sync that to my phone using syncthing. I have hundreds of entries and the database is still less than 1mb.

Musicolet. it does everything I need for local mp3s. and SomaFM for streaming.