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[–] 148 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I skipped those, but I’m about to ruin whatever new platform my kids get in to.

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  • [–] [S] 74 points 2 years ago (1 child)
  • [–] 16 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    Your boomer parents? You're 40 something?

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  • [–] 19 points 2 years ago (7 children)

    An old person? On my Lemmy? Gasp

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  • [–] 26 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    ... was written on lemmy 😬

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  • [–] 17 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Implying we aren't mostly disgruntled boomers here.

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  • [–] 67 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    I'm pretty sure we're mostly disgruntled Millennials and Gen-X'ers.

    Anyhow, it looks like TikTok might finally be heading towards some sort of ban or regulation in the US, so maybe it'll get killed by the Boomers but in a different way.

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    [–] 104 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    My dad really changed since joining TikTok. Now that's all he talks about. Come look at this, come look at this,...
    "But I am busy."
    "Oh, come on, it's short."
    "Look. See? People love Putin."

    For fucks sake... Then he proceeds to loudly curse when he gets yet another account banned for posting some trash.
    When I try to talk to him, I am met with "Wait, I just have to finish this video." then later he complains I don't talk with him. ¿?

    I mean, it's not just TikTok alone, he uses Facebook, TikTok and VKontakte, but I feel like that had the biggest influence.

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  • [–] 47 points 2 years ago* (2 children)

    start behind the scene subscribing to anti-putin posts and channels and see he changing opinion lol

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  • [–] 12 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    100%. This actually works. Most boomers are not technologically late enough to track subscriptions and such.

    There was a YouTube video not a documentary (similar to The Brainwashing of My Dad) where their father went down the rabbithole, but they started subscribing them to better news sources, and eventually to left-leaning news sources, and he did a whole 180°.

    Fear is like a drug. It's addictive, and rightwing media sources have cracked the formula on how to get people addicted to it, and it can happen to ANYONE. The uneducated to the well-educated. The only thing that makes you immune to it is critical thinking and empathy - which is why I feel that their next war is on education and masculinity. They are literally trying to perfect the addiction so you can never leave it.

    This is part of the reason why education is so insanely important.

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    [–] 74 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    once the boomers get there and start liking it, that's when you know it's about to reach peak and crash hard. my parents are talking about reddit. case in point.

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    [–] 62 points 2 years ago (8 children)

    Not before their brains start to rot by using those in the first place

    It's scary to see how even the older generation gains reduced attention span, reduced ability to learn and need for instant gratification on this short dopamine machine.

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    [–] 55 points 2 years ago* (5 children)

    I hate to break it to you my not-so-tech-savvy friend, but boomers on tiktok is not going to destroy tiktok like it did Facebook. The algo will basically only show their content to other boomers and young people will largely be unaware of it.

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  • [–] 22 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    The same was true of Facebook my not-so-socially-savvy friend. Kids will stop using it once they realise grandma is on there because it is no longer cool.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Again, Facebook and TikTok operate differently. One is a social network, the other is a short form video platform. A social network is inherently dependent on its users. Did YouTube die when it became widely adopted??

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    [–] 47 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Oh don't worry, OP, soon you'll be a cranky old perosn who'll be complaining about whatever social media the young'uns are using and doing your part to "kill" something else by using it

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  • [–] [S] 31 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    Promise?

    Cause all I want is a platform that isn't shoving ads down your throat; respects privacy; helps you feel connected with peers; and isn't plastered with hate.

    I'll be ruining quite a few platforms with those expectations.

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  • [–] 42 points 2 years ago* (2 children)

    Facebook was all those things in the beginning.

    Reddit was all those things in the beginning.

    Twitter was all those things in the beginning.

    LinkedIn was all those things in the beginning.

    The Internet in general was all those things in the beginning.

    I've never used IG/TT but I assume they were all those things in the beginning.

    Lemmy will probably be said to be most of those things in the beginning.

    With age comes wisdom, which comes once you've seen the pattern happen enough times, which can only come with age.

    Sincerely,

    One of those old people.

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    [–] 46 points 2 years ago* (6 children)

    Kids think anyone older than 25 are boomers. I would wager that the average age here on Lemmy is ~30. So by default, we are all boomers here.

    With that said, follow my onlyfans account for cat news and all things related cats at

    OnlyCatFans

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    [–] 40 points 2 years ago (10 children)

    “Kill” those platforms just means “I don’t use it”. Petty absurd thing to say considering how huge FB still is.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 years ago* (5 children)

    considering how huge FB still is.

    FB is only huge because they've expanded all over the globe, even providing internet to developing nations to facilitate new user acquisition. In reality they've been bleeding the original Western users that signed up between '04-'10, and growth among new generations flatland a long time ago. There's a reason Meta aggressively expanded to other ventures (or attempt to create platforms) like Instagram, Threads, what's app, VR and metaverse. Metas only chance at sustainable growth and capturing young people is to build or buy platforms young people will use, because it ain't Facebook.

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    [–] 38 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    People of all ages have been on TikTok for years now... Y'all are the ones sounding like boomers lol

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    [–] 24 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    But Facebook still exists.

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    [–] 17 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    Someday kids will understand when the baby boomers were actually born.

    Or, I guess OP is a middle-aged person complaining about his elderly parents being on a phone app.

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    [–] 15 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Same with Reddit! My mother-in-law recently said, "I looked it up on Reddit."

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    [–] 15 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Uh oh, you're becoming the generation affixed to social media platforms.

    Oh, you'll try to hang on, I'm sure you've got a BlueSky and ZingZang account, probably dabble in Xruddle to stay "cool," but you're whining about dated platforms that most people younger than you are already moving beyond.

    Fight. Fight against the dying of the light!

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    [–] 14 points 2 years ago

    If by kill you mean turn into a cesspool of right wing extremist propaganda and incel shit only a boomer could spout and still fuck, then most platforms are already there or pretty close.

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  • [–] 13 points 2 years ago

    Never felt the need to join tiktok, my friends and family on it kept sending me links to it that were videos that I had already seen weeks ago somewhere else.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 years ago

    To everyone defending the elderly: Have you considered they're not ruining these sites because they're old, but because they're baby boomers specifically?

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