β² 353 βΌ eggπirl (lemmy.ca) submitted 2 years ago by CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca to c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 comments fedilink hide all child comments Experienced some misogyny the other day and it made me feel awesome gender euphoria.
[β] Blahaj_Blast@lemmy.blahaj.zone 80 points 2 years ago (1 child) I believe that's what you'd call ewwphoria permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 24 points 2 years ago* (3 children) But I like it, it feels good to be treated like a woman (even when it's bad or demeaning). Internalized transphobiaeven if I'll never be a real woman π’ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [β] lone_faerie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 2 years ago (1 child) CheesyCheese1 [She/her] All I see here is a real woman permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 16 points 2 years ago (4 children) Thanks, that makes me feel slightly better, but I know my voice will always sound awful and manly, I took voice training but no matter how hard I try I sound like a man doing a woman's voice. Also my hands just look like manly hands π permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [β] herorobb@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago You're a woman, so your hands and voice are womanly. Hope you have a good day. permalink fedilink source parent [β] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 years ago (1 child) Some cis women have deep voices and big hands, too. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) My hands aren't just big though, they have that rough manly quality, difficult to describe. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago A moisturizing routine helps. Women's hands get dry during winter months. permalink fedilink source parent [β] Juno@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) Weird but I practice my voice with muppet characters. Grover is π If you can figure out grover and cookie monster, you can sound super fem The trick = making the voice without hurting your throat Gotta bounce sounds off the top of your mouth permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children) When I try it always sounds too deep, and I just can't go any higher π’ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Would you like me to share my voice therapy worksheets with you? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Marisacat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago I'd appreciate that, if I can ask as well! permalink fedilink source parent [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago Take your tongue π and rest it on the two back molars in your mouth to help focus the sounds you want into a smaller space. You don't have to ALWAYS do that, no no no, but it'll help teach you how to bounce sounds off the roof of your mouth instead of the sounds originating closer to the back of your throat. Think of it like doing the splits, you have to stretch your vocal chords in a very specific way to be able to sound how you want. But it takes time and just like with the splits - you really can only make small incremental progress. You'll get the hang of it hun. π I like to stretch with this song π΅ https://youtu.be/pTA0DSfrGZ0?feature=shared "Do you FEEEEEL it ?" That line helps me pinch my vocal chords just right. I still can't sing that line, but after Ward I sound much more fem OHHH. And you have to open your nasal passages <- I watched the documentary "I am big bird" carol spinney does both big bird and Oscar the grouch's voice. So big bird is high and nasal, (think like a bird HoooonK with a sustained O sound) But basically I used some of that as inspiration, if you can make a low Gruff sound like Oscar and also a high nasally Big Bird, that pretty much is what you have to do and just make it sound less cartoony when you get the hang of that. permalink fedilink source parent [β] BautAufWasEuchAufbaut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Heeey I have the same two issues rn, wanna talk about it? Doing training but it all seems so far away permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago See my other comment here permalink fedilink source parent [β] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) Whoa, how does that spoiler tag work? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] rain_worl@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago [label][contents] makes: [label][contents] permalink fedilink source parent [β] rain_worl@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago btw you are girl! good job!!! permalink fedilink source parent
[β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 24 points 2 years ago* (3 children) But I like it, it feels good to be treated like a woman (even when it's bad or demeaning). Internalized transphobiaeven if I'll never be a real woman π’ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [β] lone_faerie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 2 years ago (1 child) CheesyCheese1 [She/her] All I see here is a real woman permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 16 points 2 years ago (4 children) Thanks, that makes me feel slightly better, but I know my voice will always sound awful and manly, I took voice training but no matter how hard I try I sound like a man doing a woman's voice. Also my hands just look like manly hands π permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [β] herorobb@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago You're a woman, so your hands and voice are womanly. Hope you have a good day. permalink fedilink source parent [β] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 years ago (1 child) Some cis women have deep voices and big hands, too. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) My hands aren't just big though, they have that rough manly quality, difficult to describe. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago A moisturizing routine helps. Women's hands get dry during winter months. permalink fedilink source parent [β] Juno@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) Weird but I practice my voice with muppet characters. Grover is π If you can figure out grover and cookie monster, you can sound super fem The trick = making the voice without hurting your throat Gotta bounce sounds off the top of your mouth permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children) When I try it always sounds too deep, and I just can't go any higher π’ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Would you like me to share my voice therapy worksheets with you? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Marisacat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago I'd appreciate that, if I can ask as well! permalink fedilink source parent [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago Take your tongue π and rest it on the two back molars in your mouth to help focus the sounds you want into a smaller space. You don't have to ALWAYS do that, no no no, but it'll help teach you how to bounce sounds off the roof of your mouth instead of the sounds originating closer to the back of your throat. Think of it like doing the splits, you have to stretch your vocal chords in a very specific way to be able to sound how you want. But it takes time and just like with the splits - you really can only make small incremental progress. You'll get the hang of it hun. π I like to stretch with this song π΅ https://youtu.be/pTA0DSfrGZ0?feature=shared "Do you FEEEEEL it ?" That line helps me pinch my vocal chords just right. I still can't sing that line, but after Ward I sound much more fem OHHH. And you have to open your nasal passages <- I watched the documentary "I am big bird" carol spinney does both big bird and Oscar the grouch's voice. So big bird is high and nasal, (think like a bird HoooonK with a sustained O sound) But basically I used some of that as inspiration, if you can make a low Gruff sound like Oscar and also a high nasally Big Bird, that pretty much is what you have to do and just make it sound less cartoony when you get the hang of that. permalink fedilink source parent [β] BautAufWasEuchAufbaut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Heeey I have the same two issues rn, wanna talk about it? Doing training but it all seems so far away permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago See my other comment here permalink fedilink source parent [β] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) Whoa, how does that spoiler tag work? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] rain_worl@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago [label][contents] makes: [label][contents] permalink fedilink source parent [β] rain_worl@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago btw you are girl! good job!!! permalink fedilink source parent
[β] lone_faerie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 2 years ago (1 child) CheesyCheese1 [She/her] All I see here is a real woman permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 16 points 2 years ago (4 children) Thanks, that makes me feel slightly better, but I know my voice will always sound awful and manly, I took voice training but no matter how hard I try I sound like a man doing a woman's voice. Also my hands just look like manly hands π permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [β] herorobb@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago You're a woman, so your hands and voice are womanly. Hope you have a good day. permalink fedilink source parent [β] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 years ago (1 child) Some cis women have deep voices and big hands, too. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) My hands aren't just big though, they have that rough manly quality, difficult to describe. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago A moisturizing routine helps. Women's hands get dry during winter months. permalink fedilink source parent [β] Juno@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) Weird but I practice my voice with muppet characters. Grover is π If you can figure out grover and cookie monster, you can sound super fem The trick = making the voice without hurting your throat Gotta bounce sounds off the top of your mouth permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children) When I try it always sounds too deep, and I just can't go any higher π’ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Would you like me to share my voice therapy worksheets with you? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Marisacat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago I'd appreciate that, if I can ask as well! permalink fedilink source parent [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago Take your tongue π and rest it on the two back molars in your mouth to help focus the sounds you want into a smaller space. You don't have to ALWAYS do that, no no no, but it'll help teach you how to bounce sounds off the roof of your mouth instead of the sounds originating closer to the back of your throat. Think of it like doing the splits, you have to stretch your vocal chords in a very specific way to be able to sound how you want. But it takes time and just like with the splits - you really can only make small incremental progress. You'll get the hang of it hun. π I like to stretch with this song π΅ https://youtu.be/pTA0DSfrGZ0?feature=shared "Do you FEEEEEL it ?" That line helps me pinch my vocal chords just right. I still can't sing that line, but after Ward I sound much more fem OHHH. And you have to open your nasal passages <- I watched the documentary "I am big bird" carol spinney does both big bird and Oscar the grouch's voice. So big bird is high and nasal, (think like a bird HoooonK with a sustained O sound) But basically I used some of that as inspiration, if you can make a low Gruff sound like Oscar and also a high nasally Big Bird, that pretty much is what you have to do and just make it sound less cartoony when you get the hang of that. permalink fedilink source parent [β] BautAufWasEuchAufbaut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Heeey I have the same two issues rn, wanna talk about it? Doing training but it all seems so far away permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago See my other comment here permalink fedilink source parent
[β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 16 points 2 years ago (4 children) Thanks, that makes me feel slightly better, but I know my voice will always sound awful and manly, I took voice training but no matter how hard I try I sound like a man doing a woman's voice. Also my hands just look like manly hands π permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [β] herorobb@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago You're a woman, so your hands and voice are womanly. Hope you have a good day. permalink fedilink source parent [β] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 years ago (1 child) Some cis women have deep voices and big hands, too. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) My hands aren't just big though, they have that rough manly quality, difficult to describe. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago A moisturizing routine helps. Women's hands get dry during winter months. permalink fedilink source parent [β] Juno@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) Weird but I practice my voice with muppet characters. Grover is π If you can figure out grover and cookie monster, you can sound super fem The trick = making the voice without hurting your throat Gotta bounce sounds off the top of your mouth permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children) When I try it always sounds too deep, and I just can't go any higher π’ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Would you like me to share my voice therapy worksheets with you? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Marisacat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago I'd appreciate that, if I can ask as well! permalink fedilink source parent [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago Take your tongue π and rest it on the two back molars in your mouth to help focus the sounds you want into a smaller space. You don't have to ALWAYS do that, no no no, but it'll help teach you how to bounce sounds off the roof of your mouth instead of the sounds originating closer to the back of your throat. Think of it like doing the splits, you have to stretch your vocal chords in a very specific way to be able to sound how you want. But it takes time and just like with the splits - you really can only make small incremental progress. You'll get the hang of it hun. π I like to stretch with this song π΅ https://youtu.be/pTA0DSfrGZ0?feature=shared "Do you FEEEEEL it ?" That line helps me pinch my vocal chords just right. I still can't sing that line, but after Ward I sound much more fem OHHH. And you have to open your nasal passages <- I watched the documentary "I am big bird" carol spinney does both big bird and Oscar the grouch's voice. So big bird is high and nasal, (think like a bird HoooonK with a sustained O sound) But basically I used some of that as inspiration, if you can make a low Gruff sound like Oscar and also a high nasally Big Bird, that pretty much is what you have to do and just make it sound less cartoony when you get the hang of that. permalink fedilink source parent [β] BautAufWasEuchAufbaut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Heeey I have the same two issues rn, wanna talk about it? Doing training but it all seems so far away permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago See my other comment here permalink fedilink source parent
[β] herorobb@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago You're a woman, so your hands and voice are womanly. Hope you have a good day. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 years ago (1 child) Some cis women have deep voices and big hands, too. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) My hands aren't just big though, they have that rough manly quality, difficult to describe. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago A moisturizing routine helps. Women's hands get dry during winter months. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) My hands aren't just big though, they have that rough manly quality, difficult to describe. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago A moisturizing routine helps. Women's hands get dry during winter months. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago A moisturizing routine helps. Women's hands get dry during winter months. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Juno@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) Weird but I practice my voice with muppet characters. Grover is π If you can figure out grover and cookie monster, you can sound super fem The trick = making the voice without hurting your throat Gotta bounce sounds off the top of your mouth permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children) When I try it always sounds too deep, and I just can't go any higher π’ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Would you like me to share my voice therapy worksheets with you? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Marisacat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago I'd appreciate that, if I can ask as well! permalink fedilink source parent [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago Take your tongue π and rest it on the two back molars in your mouth to help focus the sounds you want into a smaller space. You don't have to ALWAYS do that, no no no, but it'll help teach you how to bounce sounds off the roof of your mouth instead of the sounds originating closer to the back of your throat. Think of it like doing the splits, you have to stretch your vocal chords in a very specific way to be able to sound how you want. But it takes time and just like with the splits - you really can only make small incremental progress. You'll get the hang of it hun. π I like to stretch with this song π΅ https://youtu.be/pTA0DSfrGZ0?feature=shared "Do you FEEEEEL it ?" That line helps me pinch my vocal chords just right. I still can't sing that line, but after Ward I sound much more fem OHHH. And you have to open your nasal passages <- I watched the documentary "I am big bird" carol spinney does both big bird and Oscar the grouch's voice. So big bird is high and nasal, (think like a bird HoooonK with a sustained O sound) But basically I used some of that as inspiration, if you can make a low Gruff sound like Oscar and also a high nasally Big Bird, that pretty much is what you have to do and just make it sound less cartoony when you get the hang of that. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca [S] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children) When I try it always sounds too deep, and I just can't go any higher π’ permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Would you like me to share my voice therapy worksheets with you? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Marisacat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago I'd appreciate that, if I can ask as well! permalink fedilink source parent [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago Take your tongue π and rest it on the two back molars in your mouth to help focus the sounds you want into a smaller space. You don't have to ALWAYS do that, no no no, but it'll help teach you how to bounce sounds off the roof of your mouth instead of the sounds originating closer to the back of your throat. Think of it like doing the splits, you have to stretch your vocal chords in a very specific way to be able to sound how you want. But it takes time and just like with the splits - you really can only make small incremental progress. You'll get the hang of it hun. π I like to stretch with this song π΅ https://youtu.be/pTA0DSfrGZ0?feature=shared "Do you FEEEEEL it ?" That line helps me pinch my vocal chords just right. I still can't sing that line, but after Ward I sound much more fem OHHH. And you have to open your nasal passages <- I watched the documentary "I am big bird" carol spinney does both big bird and Oscar the grouch's voice. So big bird is high and nasal, (think like a bird HoooonK with a sustained O sound) But basically I used some of that as inspiration, if you can make a low Gruff sound like Oscar and also a high nasally Big Bird, that pretty much is what you have to do and just make it sound less cartoony when you get the hang of that. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Would you like me to share my voice therapy worksheets with you? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Marisacat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago I'd appreciate that, if I can ask as well! permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Marisacat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago I'd appreciate that, if I can ask as well! permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago Take your tongue π and rest it on the two back molars in your mouth to help focus the sounds you want into a smaller space. You don't have to ALWAYS do that, no no no, but it'll help teach you how to bounce sounds off the roof of your mouth instead of the sounds originating closer to the back of your throat. Think of it like doing the splits, you have to stretch your vocal chords in a very specific way to be able to sound how you want. But it takes time and just like with the splits - you really can only make small incremental progress. You'll get the hang of it hun. π I like to stretch with this song π΅ https://youtu.be/pTA0DSfrGZ0?feature=shared "Do you FEEEEEL it ?" That line helps me pinch my vocal chords just right. I still can't sing that line, but after Ward I sound much more fem OHHH. And you have to open your nasal passages <- I watched the documentary "I am big bird" carol spinney does both big bird and Oscar the grouch's voice. So big bird is high and nasal, (think like a bird HoooonK with a sustained O sound) But basically I used some of that as inspiration, if you can make a low Gruff sound like Oscar and also a high nasally Big Bird, that pretty much is what you have to do and just make it sound less cartoony when you get the hang of that. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] BautAufWasEuchAufbaut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Heeey I have the same two issues rn, wanna talk about it? Doing training but it all seems so far away permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago See my other comment here permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Juno@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago See my other comment here permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) Whoa, how does that spoiler tag work? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] rain_worl@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago [label][contents] makes: [label][contents] permalink fedilink source parent
[β] rain_worl@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago [label][contents] makes: [label][contents] permalink fedilink source parent
[β] rain_worl@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago btw you are girl! good job!!! permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Zehzin@lemmy.world 73 points 2 years ago* (1 child) transphobic mfers say being trans is a choice as if anyone would choose to be a woman, the inferior gender PS: Please don't be so validation starved that you internalize the misogyny permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 years ago Dudes rock! permalink fedilink source parent
[β] EmilyIsTrans@lemmy.blahaj.zone 36 points 2 years ago (1 child) I get creepy men staring at my boobs, but at least I pass I guess π₯΄ π« permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] Blahaj_Blast@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 years ago Oh, there's a creepy third option π€’ permalink fedilink source parent
[β] Blahaj_Blast@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 years ago Oh, there's a creepy third option π€’ permalink fedilink source parent
[β] lars@lemmy.sdf.org 26 points 2 years ago (1 child) To all the ladies out there lemme tell you that you are nothing but ladies and thatβs all youβll ever be for the rest of the day or whatever. Donβt let the door hit you on the way out while Iβm holding it open for you. (Sent with love and respect and weird sarcastic misogyny. Youβre killing it.) permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] rain_worl@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago lemmy tell you permalink fedilink source parent
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