As a millennial, I had access to porn rather early in my life with very little guidance. Luckily I didn't stumble into too dark of things back then, but I've always had a fascination with sex, porn, sex work, autonomy, and women's roles in sex. In many ways, this trajectory gave me confidence and a way to find my footing in a world that seemed like it was just for men.

Pondering along this line of thought, perhaps it's not such a mystery why I ended up taking more of a "domme" role in the bedroom as I aged.

It's probably made me more open to/interested in, shall we say, less traditional sexual activities. People are so creative!

Made me realise that I prefer to be on the receiving end from either sex.