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Isn't she rulely? (multiverse.soulism.net)

submitted 1 week ago by Grail@multiverse.soulism.net to c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I am not explaining this meme to anyone who doesn't get it, because that would be spoilers.

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[–] decipher_jeanne@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 6 days ago* (1 child)

Is she tho? I mean could be just gender non conforming. I felt like the scene was more about her finding someone to open up to for the 1st time.

Oh nevermind I didn't see the social media post in detail

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[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net [S] 6 points 6 days ago

Haha the creator posted fanart of their own dang show where Lilly (preferred name) is presenting as a girl minutes after the finale ended.

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[–] Carnelian@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago

I will explain! Spoilers: it’s because she rules!

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[–] megopie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 week ago (1 child)

“I’m wearing this maid outfit ironically”

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[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 week ago

be all gender freaky and stuff ~

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[–] Chezus9247@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago

All right then. Keep your secrets.

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[–] rapchee@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

at least what she's in?

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[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net [S] 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Okay

Amazing Digital Circus

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[–] rapchee@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 child)

oh i see now, also why it is a spoiler

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[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net [S] 7 points 1 week ago*

Well,

The fact that she's trans isn't immediately obvious to anyone except My friend Speedforce, who headcanons every male character She likes as trans. And this time, it paid off

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[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago

Tap for spoiler

I would not have got that that was jax lol

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[–] carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago