Basically what I mean is, did you also come here from reddit?

I came here after I got my Reddit account banned permanently. And the thing is, I don't exactly know why I got banned. Nor what I did wrong. I always tried to follow the rules, post and comment appropriately and nicely, but on New Year's Day last week, I got a message simply saying "Your account have been permanently banned for violating the rules.

But when I replied asking what rule or rules I unknowingly broke, they just messaged me back saying "you got banned because you violated the community guidelines". So now I'm here.

What about you? Are you also a Reddit Refugee?

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[–] 156 points 6 months ago (9 children)

I think the majority of Lemmy users are Reddit refugees, not because they got banned, but because of the Reddit API changes that forced 99% of the third party apps to shut down.

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  • [–] [S] 10 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    What is API?

    Like ELI5 please

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  • [–] 37 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    It’s a way for apps to interact with reddit. Reddit shut down the API for third party clients so that you’re forced to use their crappy official app instead of much nicer alternatives.

    I used a different app to access Reddit and hence couldn’t use it anymore. The official app was a huge downgrade to what I was using before and full of ads. So I - like many others - just left Reddit for good.

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  • [–] 7 points 6 months ago

    The API change wasn’t it, it’s when it became clear to me they were selling all my data to Google. I frequented mental health subs, and I started getting Google ads for scams TARGETING people with mental health issues. Just sick.

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    [–] 61 points 6 months ago (5 children)

    Since the API exodus, yes.

    I made a very conscious choice to leave reddit at that time, due to that particular bullshit, and I don't regret it.

    Doesn't mean I don't miss reddit though, because I do. Reddit has a lot more traffic which obviously means a lot more content in the sort of niche communities I really love.

    But I made the right choice. I don't want to be part of that any longer. And the more of us make this choice, the better things will be for us all.

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    [–] 34 points 6 months ago

    I left during the api bullshit, fuck spez

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  • [–] 33 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    ... Every single person on Lemmy is a Reddit refugee. You're not going to find a single person here who has not used Reddit before.

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  • [–] 26 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    The vast majority of folk here are ex Reddit users. I predate the great Reddit exodus, but even so, I came to lemmy after leaving Reddit, because I wanted something to scratch that itch.

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    [–] 20 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Yes, a lot of us left during the API exodus. Reddit was already going downhill anyway with all the bot spam and shills, that's probably even worse there nowadays.

    Once in a while I do bring up old.reddit to read through some communities that haven't caught on here (yet), or maybe something that comes up in a google search, but that hasn't been enough to make me want to log back in there let alone post/comment on anything.

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    [–] 19 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    I left with the disabling of API.

    Today, I went back in to my account to delete every single comment I have ever made, one by one, then deleted the entire account. Should have done it ages ago, but better now than never.

    I was reading about bans and stuff and all sorts that I didn't care to understand, so instead of using a third party apps to change/delete/etc my comments, I did it manually. It felt pretty satisfying.

    My last "fuck you, r/jailbait Spez". I'm not letting them use my comments or account for anything. Hopefully, I've done it right.

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  • [–] 18 points 6 months ago

    I would probably even say: Who wasnt?
    You either came from Twitter, Reddit or some other major social media as a primary user.
    I don't believe someone just was old enough to join the internet world and decided to just join lemmy/fediverse at first sight.

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  • [–] 17 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    I am here from reddit but I wouldn't call myself a refugee. More like an immigrant. I wasn't banned. I just tried this, liked it better, and since I disagreed with the API changes I settled here. I still browse reddit when I can't find specific stuff on Lemmy, and very, very occasionally (like once or twice a year) I post there in subs that aren't as developed here.

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    [–] 16 points 6 months ago* (1 child)

    They killed 3rd party apps, I didn't wanna use their app, so I switched to something else and that something else happened to be Lemmy. Turns out, Lemmy is even better than Reddit in many ways.

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    [–] 14 points 6 months ago

    They killed 3rd party apps. I left when my app stopped working and lemmy conveniently worked with some of the same clients that reddit was breaking.

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  • [–] 13 points 6 months ago

    I think the better question is to ask who isn't a Reddit refugee. As in, who here never had a Reddit account and just showed up on Lemmy one day?

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  • [–] 12 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Same here. Permanently banned from all of Reddit, and I was never told why. I suspect it was my criticism of the Orange One. I appeal every day, just to give them a little more paperwork.

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    [–] 12 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Originally I came with the API changes, I had only been using reddit for two months though. If I had known about Lemmy I don't think I would have had the desire to use reddit in the first place.

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    [–] 11 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    I still consume on Reddit, but won’t post or contribute there anymore.

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    [–] 11 points 6 months ago*

    Truth is, regardless of how fucked that platform is, I still resent being banned and the insane extent to which they prevent you returning. The use of throwaways was entirely normal back in the day, now it's called 'ban evasion'. It's nearly impossible (or at least super-tedious) to get back on once they kick you off. It just seems like such an extreme over-reaction. Permanent bans are insane. I've seen people get barred from pubs after drunken violence, but that's usually only for a year or so. This is basically forever.

    I was on there for over a decade and posted in multiple communities all the time. Had a load of karma and rarely got into any aggressive arguments. Then one day I upset a mod for complaining about a removed post, that apparently contravened some petty rule. I'm banned from the sub. I use another account, they found out it was me I'm permanently banned. 12 years of contribution just forgotten, all because of some vindictive little basement dwelling prick.

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  • [–] 11 points 6 months ago

    MAGA freaks should love me. I didn't get banned from reddit, I self-deported.

    I actually had a Fediverse account several years before the Great Reddit Migration, but it didn't keep my interest at the time. Tried again and stuck with it after the API change killed third-party reddit apps and they started inserting reddit-approved mods into all major subs.

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  • [–] 11 points 6 months ago

    Yes, I'm a Reddit refugee.

    The site changed so much over the ten years I used it. When I started, there was plenty of good discussion and the most informative comments got voted up. Then power users started playing the same games with karma that rich people play with money. Near the end the negativity and superficiality were overwhelming. Then the API business happened and I realised Reddit was in the last few stages of circling the drain. I learned about Lemmy from a comment by someone who announced they were leaving for good, and I followed them.

    If you look at Reddit today... the posts and comments share the same quality regardless of whether they're human or AI slop.

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  • [–] 10 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    i spent 15+ years on reddit but when they started to sell out to wall street it was pretty obvious where it was going... but im addicted to doomscrolling so i built an instance to replace my own reddit addiction. the fediverse has filled the gap nicely.

    just before it took a hard right turn and replaced half the users with bots

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    [–] 9 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    I quit the big R when they killed third party apps.

    Would have paid them a monthly fee to use my app,but the way they killed them really soured me on Reddit. Burned my account, and moved on

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    [–] 9 points 6 months ago

    Leaving all US-American platforms, meta first, then Reddit, now google. No reason to support US businesses.

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  • [–] 9 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    I came here and leave Reddit forever because I am trying to use less US products and services. Right now I don't know how to bypass Microsoft and Google. Everything else is easy (like forgetting about Reddit or not drinking Coca Cola).

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    [–] 9 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    When Reddit killed Apollo, I no longer had the means to use Reddit— I’d rather not have Reddit than use the Reddit app.

    Unlike so many people here, I have nothing against centralized social media, and I actively miss it— I miss having a large user base to talk with, I GREATLY miss all the specialize niche communities I followed. But it’s not good if I can’t access them.

    Yes, the centralized nature of Reddit means that one person can fuck up the entire community… but decentralization means I have no one to talk to about the things I want to.

    Anyway. I’m here hoping that enough people will eventually join that I can have MY Reddit back. I’m frustrated that the place is so tankie infested though, and fear that’s greatly holding it back.

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    [–] 9 points 6 months ago

    Fuck Reddit and move on.

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  • [–] 9 points 6 months ago

    Yes and no, I was on Mastodon long ago, peaked into Lenmy, watched other Fediverse prokects with interest.

    I'd not used Reddit for many years, before I actually made a Lemmy account, then when I saw Boost was available for Lemmy, I started using that.

    I am odd though, old and have a differnt view of the internet based around it being a space for enthusiasts and tinkerers and corporate can and will only ever eventually enshitifiy whatever their fingers touch, so I dont use things like FB, Reddit, Apple products, Microsoft products, WhatsApp, Insta, Light room etc

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  • [–] 8 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    I came here after I read spez wanted to paywall subreddits.

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    [–] 8 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    At least you got a message. I got shadowbanned without any message, and tons of appeals were just wasted times. :(

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  • [–] 8 points 6 months ago

    I'm also here from the API thing. This scratches the itch for me and that's more than enough in this day and age.

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    [–] 7 points 6 months ago

    Another one here for the API exodus 👍

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  • [–] 7 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    I got banned for low key implying there's a genocide going on in Gaza.

    Not even stating it.

    Just implying it.

    "antisemitism, permaban"

    That was in 2023 iirc

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    [–] 6 points 6 months ago

    Only started doing Reddit frequently late 2024, and then came "Liberation Day" & I realized I needed to liberate myself from US tech.

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  • [–] 6 points 6 months ago

    I'm here because Reddit started buying CBP adds. Fuck collaborators

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