Cross-posted from "ADHD gaming" by @Stamets@lemmy.world in !gaming@lemmy.world


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[–] 51 points 1 year ago (2 children)
  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Processing any shaders...every load time. I guess the upside of spending too much on hardware it doesn't take as long as it could. I definitely ignored Hogwarts Legacy some game evenings cause it did that every time I played, it went away recently though and oddly I finished after being able to play right away.

    One of the one games I've finished in like 3 years, which I assume is also an add thing, I don't finish a lot, just try and get my entertainment value and hope for the best after. Currently not wanting to lock into the last mission of cyberpunk 2077 heh.

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  • [–] 38 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    Is it ADHD or is it depression 🤔

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    [+] 28 points 1 year ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)
  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago* (3 children)

    Doing this used to annoy me, but I've come to accept that the modding bit is just a hobby of mine. I enjoy the process of research, troubleshooting, and time spent finding, installing, and configuring mods. Then I'll play the game for a bit, maybe complete the first quest or something, and then it will sit untouched for the next year before I eventually uninstall it for storage.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    This is me with skyrim... But I do play test for some hours write down what is bad and need to be fixed, start fixing the mods, find more mods, aaaand repeat. I just figured I like moding more than playing haha

    Last year when I did the same did I tell my self: this will be perfect and next time i play again then I can just play without putting time and effort into moding, maybe just update some. Lol I started over, again... And this time has it been a month instead of 2 weeks since I started and I am not done... I wonder if I will ever be done... More mods are just added and more merges and patches do I create. Maybe moding is the game I play 😂 I am scared of next year because I kinda double the time spent modding every year.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago*

    Game: optimizing shaders, please wait

    Me: looks at phone

    Game: loads into main menu

    Me: jams to the main menu music while scrolling for 45 mins

    Me: Nah I don't wanna play anymore

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago* (5 children)

    Or you're trying to mod skyrim for the first time in 10+ years and hyper focus on troubleshooting crash after crash for 36-ish hours.

    Just a theoretical scenario...

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    [–] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I don't have ADHD but it happens to me sometimes. Because all of these lengthy updates, shader caching, loading of game loader, loading of game, etc. By the time a game fully loads I need to go to bed.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I played Roller Coaster Tycoon from 1999 recently. That was the exact opposite, and so refreshing. Its an efficient game, which I think it had to be to run well back then with the simulation of 1000 individual guests and the whole park on a Pentium 90 with 16 MB of RAM.

    I don't remember how it was back then, but now playing it on a modern computer, it just loads instantly. When I noticed how truly instant it was, I was so surprised that I just switched back and forth between loading two saves for a bit :-)

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I quit playing the Sims 4, I am simply, a builder. I would go on a month binge, then not play for 6months. Sometimes I'd play once a month-

    But having to fix my mods every single time I booted was so much. I never had issue finding what was broken, it was just so time consuming. Then after two hours the game would be ready to play, and .. I would be instantly bored, forgot my house plan to the mind vortex, all energy spent, ugh. That game is seriously dead.

    I was beyond excited to move from xbox to pc with that game. amazing how it took no time at all for me to hate it.

    I also play PvE Rust, it takes like a half hour to load in, and i get a whopping 33FPS. Love that game so much, 20-30mins loading time is fine if I dont have to fix mods like a sleuth every fuckin time I want to play. Just walk slowly so the graphics can load in lmao

    I still load into Rust and immediately just, log off often. Hyperfocus just isnt there sometimes. Thats when I load N (it's free and fun!) and play short levels.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Fucking hate it when this happens

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Me but with a half hour setup for a solo boardgame 😭

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  • [+] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)
  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago

    Depends. If it's a book I'm not interested in or that I need to read for some reason: hell no. Just repeating the same few sentences over and over until I give up. If it's something I want to read though, and I'm hooked by the plot and curious what happens next, it's another timehole where 5 minutes of reading suddenly last at least an hour.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    That's the thing: you don't. After reading the same page a dozen times over and still being unable to comprehend a single damn thing, you eventually get frustrated and give up.

    The only time I can get through a book is if it's on a subject I'm really interested in.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago*

    Often, I will reread the same paragraph a dozen times because I either fail to comprehend it, or because I can't help my mind from wandering. Sometimes my mind will wander to thinking about what might happen next, instead of just reading it.

    If its a book or subject I'm really enjoying, this is a process I don't mind and even like doing. It's okay to just let your imagination run sometimes. But if it's a boring book, or it's something I'm totally uninterested in like required reading back in school, it's miserable and I've never been able to do it.

    Unfortunately this means I'm terrible at research unless it's something I'm super interested in at the moment.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago*

    The best time to read books for me, was when I was paid to do it.

    I worked the ticket booth at a state park. We had a lake, so we'd stay open even if it was raining. We'd have four or five boats come in the morning, I'd take their fees. The rest of the day I would sit in that booth making minimum wage, sitting in a small shelter from the rain, while being in the woods, and I'd read the whole time. I read 6 books that summer just from down time sitting in the booth

    Read on my own time? I can't remember to bring the book with me. I really just need to put one in my purse.. oh look, I forgot to do that .. again.

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    [–] 9 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    It's so hard to finish long ass games....

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago

    That is why the first thing I do with ANY new PC game is to disable all those company logos and legal bumpers that are played before you even get to the main menu.

    In most cases it is as easy as opening the game's files in explorer and deleting a few files, like "nvidia_logo.bik" or "legal.bik".

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    YES!

    I finished downloading almost 40GB of Call of Duty Mobile over mobile data on February 21st. I still haven't played it, and now it needs updates installed for sure.
    Yeah, quite a big phone game.

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    [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    Get a Steam Deck, and you can press the power button whenever you want to stop playing and it puts the system on standby. Press it again and it powers on in a couple seconds right where you left it.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Go into menus and clear the red dot notifications. Get my free daily stuff. Then close out

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    So my overpowered PC is so I don't lose focus due to loading times.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    This is why MAME emulation and classic arcade games are so addictive. They were no bullshit. They got you started right away.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    That's why I like playing older games. You launch them and start playing immediately.

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  • If a game takes 2 minutes to come to the menu, yes then i do lose interest in the game, not because of ADHD, but because i recognize it's inefficiently coded and probably will hang and lag like crazy later on.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I really shouldve started playing _____. Closes X, boots ____ Dang, I was gonna check something on X...

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I usually only get this when I'm overworked, a few days of staring at a wall usually fixes it until the next overtime wave.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I don't really play anymore but occasionally I get the desire to play some Gran Turismo. The last three or four times I've had that urge, both the console and the game required rather large updates. Half an hour later, still not done updating.. desire to play gone with the wind. Rinse and repeat 3 months later.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    Too god damn true. Some games back on the last two generations took so god damn long to load. GTA V took I believe like 4 minutes to load from cold boot? So I'd be lost in thought, and the bored by the time the game loaded up.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Which is why I've mostly been a console peasant. PC games are like "So let's spend 5 minutes installing extra shit. And maybe 15 minutes screwing with the settings and fixing compatibility. Oh and are you ready for The Modern Scourge, the Hell that is shader precompilation? We'll be here for a while."

    Modern games are a little bit better, but yeah...

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