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[–] 140 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Bring back calling these people weird!!

Call them sweaty for wanting to control women's bodies. They should be called out every time they do something or support somthing dumb.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    "Call them the sweaty" can you explain this phrase to me? Or is it a typo lol

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    In this context it means being creepy, but it's a generally negative analogy

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    It's making fun of people (generally Facebook boomers) who use the term "sweetie" condescendingly, but also can't spell for shit.

    Or maybe the meme has evolved and I'm behind... lol

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    You are a bit, akshully /s

    The slang “sweaty” is used loosely to mean competitive or like overly anxious. Usually in response to making some inane point.

    Comes from competitive gaming where other players who try to hard (“tryhards”) making gaming not fun for normal players.

    “Too many sweaty hard lobbies made my favorite game not fun to play. How can I get good when I just get killed over and over!”

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    They're not weird, they're bad. Weird is not bad.

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  • [–] 78 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    I remember my 80+ year old grandmother getting upset that there was a shot called "Blackish" and not a show called "Whtieish" or whatever. And like... I dunno Brady Bunch, etc?

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago*

    My mother asked me a similar question some 15 years ago. It was why we didn't have White History Month or White Entertainment Television.

    Sadly, I didn't have the ammo to fire back and say something like, "what about March thru January, and maybe all the rest of the television on TV since forever?"

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    [–] 51 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I feel like we should have just ignored these people. Deal with the ones who become problems, but otherwise not dignify their nonsense with a response. "Why is this movie so WOKE?" ... "So anyway the CGI in this movie was pretty bad right? lol."

    We spent the last 2 decades feeding the trolls. Making them think they mattered even if it was to be hated or ridiculed by their enemies.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    We spent the last 2 decades feeding the trolls. Making them think they mattered even if it was to be hated or ridiculed by their enemies.

    YES! I have done my utmost to ignore these neanderthals my entire life because I grew up on 4chan and learned "do NOT feed the trolls" early. But apparently every news reporter and Facebook boomer since 2014 did not get the memo, and -waves at the general state of the world- here we are.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago* (3 children)

    The problem with ignoring them is that it then tacitly shows acceptance of these behaviors.

    We've already seen this with how women have been treated. Now we're making some progress by calling it out.

    Additionally, if it's their goal to get attention then they will act even worse if they don't get the attention they want.

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  • Obviously context is important. In meatspace it's much more important to create friction and pushback. If you're moderating a platform it's important to, well, moderate.

    But on social media, attention (good or bad) is currency. So ignoring can be a good strategy.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago*

    Notice how I'm specifically talking about news headlines, Facebook boomers, and 4chan. All digital spaces. I never said I didn't call this shit out IRL.

    These people got attention on social media first, and then decided to move it offline. There are whole articles about how Steve Bannon used online spaces to radicalize people because doing it irl was too tough before and during the first Trump presidency. Then newsmedia and every social platform found outrage generated clicks which generated ad revenue during the first Trump presidency, and we have now been living in this racist, fascist hellscape for a decade.

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    [–] 44 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    It doesn't have to be something everyone is watching.. I had twitter for maybe 2 days before deleting it because somehow this fuckin Matt Walsh clown got served up to me. He was crying about how Drew Barrymore had a trans person on her show. He had like 40k likes on it. How the fuck do you make a living looking for things on tv to be mad about, and why is anyone cheering him on. That's deranged. CHANGE THE FUCKIN CHANNEL YOU WORTHLESS STOOGE!

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  • [–] 24 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    How the fuck do you make a living looking for things on tv to be mad about, and why is anyone cheering him on.

    Spoken like you must not be recovering from a childhood in a conservative home, lol.

    Finding things to be mad about, is living. It is as natural as breathing. Like breathing, you don’t notice you’re doing it unless you notice you’re doing it. It is what you think about when you plan your day and what makes you open your mouth to socialize with other people. It strongly informs your personality, your social circles, and your hobbies.

    Just be careful you don’t accidentally spend years wrenching your brain out of the negativity malaise, or you might start to do dumb things like being content with what you have, working less, wasting time on rewarding hobbies, or doing nice things for people without expecting something in return. People you aren’t even related to! Could you imagine??

    Of course up above when I say things to be “mad about,” that could also mean “afraid of or confused about, but I am tough and strong and not scared of things and don’t have wussy feminine emotions and so I’m mad rawr!”

    Edit to add: I’m being tough on conservatives because they deserve it, but being addicted to outrage (along with all your favorite psychological biases and logical fallacies) is something that everybody has to be concerned with for themselves.

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  • [–] 39 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Do you think they're just confused in football? Like do they not know who's under the helmets? Cuz like 80% of the players are black.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

    It's because they are in a performing role. They are token individuals destroying their bodies to create entertainment for the audience. It's no different than how the south treats rodeo as some kind of beacon of equality for black individuals. It's purely a facade to point at when denying the existence of inequality and dismissing civil rights arguments.

    It's also directly tied to the myth of the primal black man - all brawn and no brain. A racist sex symbol.

    EDIT: typos

    EDIT 2: flipped brain and brawn, didn't notice. Fixed.

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    [–] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Uhhhh... Nobody is used to that unless they enable racism casually as a hobby

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    [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    The best thing to do is not give them an audience.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago*

    In my experience with conservatives, black athletes broke that barrier a long time ago. The modern version is anything gay - if they see a gay character in a tv show, "everything's gay now".

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