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[–] 112 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (25 children)

LGBTQ+ Everyone, but LGBTQ+ people especially need to get the the fuck off of Meta services now, they've showed what side they're on.

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  • [–] 52 points 2 years ago* (4 children)

    Straight+cis people too. I'm downloading an export of my Facebook info as we speak in preparation for closing it down.

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    [–] 63 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I guess advertisers have no issues with Meta’s changes. Interesting. A few years ago, they’d be falling over themselves to signal that “hate has no place here”. But it is no longer profitable to be LGBTQ+ so let the hateful bell ring.

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  • [–] 36 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (13 children)

    I wonder why nobody is considering the most obvious solution to all this complication around what is NSFW and what is not: Children shouldn't be on these platforms at all to begin with. They shouldn't be anywhere near social media until age 14. Definitely not free roaming everywhere on the internet.

    For us adults, I honestly cannot say whether moderation instigated by a company is better than moderation instigated by the users. The devil is in the details. This place isn't moderated by a company and you'd probably think the moderation here is superior to Meta's.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I understand this sentiment because I had a similar story growing up, but I've had to come to terms that the internet of that era does not exist anymore.

    Now we have these corporations who made it their goal to algorithmically trick you into spending more and more time engaged with their website for ad revenue, not caring how angry or misinformed people get in the meantime. It used to be a place we could escape to, but has turned into just another echo chamber/prison and worst of all - we're addicted to it.

    I think places like Mastodon and the Fediverse can help bridge this gap, but on the whole, the internet is just not a safe place for developing brains anymore.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    I found kind and supportive influences as a minor that kept me away from the hate/conservatism/fascism that many of my classmates descended into.

    Do you think your classmates found those influences from somewhere outside the internet? At least in Europe, the alt-right has been way more efficient at reaching young people online, especially boys and men.

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    [–] 34 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    Posts with LGBTQ+ hashtags including #lesbian, #bisexual, #gay, #trans, #queer, #nonbinary, #pansexial, #transwomen, #Tgirl, #Tboy, #Tgirlsarebeautiful, #bisexualpride, #lesbianpride, and dozens of others were hidden for any users who had their sensitive content filter turned on. Teenagers have the sensitive content filter turned on by default.

    Kids wont even know what they will lose with his representation going missing on Instagram. So depressing. Wish that lizard freak the worst.

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    [–] 31 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Never used Facebook, never fucking will.

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  • [–] 20 points 2 years ago* (3 children)

    Friendly reminder: Deleting your account won't accomplish what you think it will.

    Facebook will still keep all data that is associated with other users as per their own disclaimer. They also still keep logs that are "disassociated with personal identifiers. "

    So all training can still occur. And understand what while Jane Smith may have deleted her account, they still have all the data it takes to indicate that User 12345 was tagged in photos with John Smith at the Burger King on 404 Fake St. And, because of that, the data that User 12345 had previously provided is ALSO John Smith's data. And Fred Wilkerson since he was at that Burger King once. And so forth.

    And ALL that data is still there for training.

    So do what you gotta do to make it less appealing to other users. But understand your data is already out there and is never going away. Same with reddit and all other social media (which includes Lemmy).

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  • [–] 32 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Yeah but you know what? That's still better than actively engaging with their "services".

    Eventually, it'll just be bots interacting with themselves, given enough time.

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  • [–] 13 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    If you're in the US, sure. If you're in Europe you can compel them to completely delete everything as per the GDPR.

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    [–] 17 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Wait, Pro-LGBT speech IS NOT allowed!?!?! Holy fucking shit, this isn't a cesspool, it's an execution by firing squad.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago

    I was in admin chat on facebook and it was blocking any posts with links to https://lemmy.world/. I was talking to admins about firing up a lemmy instance and leave the FB group as a link to a lemmy community

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I'm kinda shocked people still actively use Facebook.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    Only ~3,000,000,000 people/month.

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