So I work a physical job with mental components. I'm always the lead on a team so this is my job. I have to do a lot of spreadsheet work, emails, teams, etc. Then I have to physically work quite hard most weeks. I often have to travel for work, sometimes many hundreds of miles. If I get lucky I get to fly.

What you posted seems almost like a joke, for real. Monday I have to get up early, rent a U-Haul, go and pick up heavy equipment, transfer a shitload of tools into the rental truck, drive two hours, make nice with everybody at one location, get forms filled out, badging, etc. Then drive another two hours to where I'll be working Tuesday. I will unload hundreds of pounds of gear, work all day, and reload all that gear that evening. I absolutely have to get Tuesday's work done or we're fucked. After I get the test results from my work on Tuesday, I'm going to meet another guy in the middle, 45 minutes each way, and give him the testing equipment. Then I'll be driving another two hours back to the original site. On Wednesday I'll be unloading the gear again, and I can start the primary job.

When I see someone saying oh no she had to get in on Sunday night, then come to work for two days it's a fucking joke.

Check your goddamn privilege.