▲ 176 ▼ What job do people take way too seriously? (lemmy.ml) submitted 2 years ago by const_void@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml 169 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com 92 points 2 years ago (3 children) Being a general manager at any retail outlet permalink fedilink source hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] FullOfBallooons@leminal.space 61 points 2 years ago (1 child) Oh god 100%. This isn't a matter of life or death, Nicole. This is a Disney Store in a mid-tier mall. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com -22 points 2 years ago 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 permalink fedilink source parent [–] regalia@literature.cafe 17 points 2 years ago (1 child) it's actually a blue collar job where they do quite a bit of physical labor, at least the good ones. I have more respect for that then a lot of white collar jobs. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Blake@feddit.uk 25 points 2 years ago (2 children) You probably shouldn’t decide how much to respect someone for what job they do. Unless they do like a really sketchy or immoral “job”, like a hitman or a scammer or something. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [+] essellburns@beehaw.org -9 points 2 years ago* (1 child) I think the only reason to respect someone is for what they do. What better measure is there, even if job is only part of that? better to form my opinion of people for what they do rather than the traditional historical measures. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Blake@feddit.uk 12 points 2 years ago A persons actions are important, but so are personality and motivations. A job isn’t “what someone does because that’s who they are as a person”, it’s the thing that they do because they need to pay their bills. It’s one thing that you know for sure that they have ulterior motives for - money. I respect people for how they act towards me and others. Are they generous, or selfish? Do they admit when they’re wrong, or do they double down on it? When they have power over others, are they cruel, or are they kind? This is way more important than what job someone has. Often, what job someone has only gives you a guesstimate as to how wealthy their parents were, and little beyond that. permalink fedilink source parent [+] barrage4u@lemmy.world -19 points 2 years ago (2 children) Disagree, I think that the way someone decides to spend their time says a lot about them. Sometimes you just need to work for money, I get that, but often times people just do whatever they fell into because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] tehmics@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Dogshit take tbh permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] barrage4u@lemmy.world -13 points 2 years ago (1 child) Clearly touched a nerve permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, gaslighting idiocy tends to touch a nerve when people are trying to have a good faith discussion 🤷 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable. If anything, I stated my opinion and I'm being attacked for it. I'm not trying to play victim, but all the feedback I've gotten from this comment is hostile permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable Really? You think THIS is being reasonable? because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society let me clue you in: it isn't. It's judgmental and makes unfair victim-blaming assumptions. It's no wonder that people react with hostility to such a presumptuous and scornful take on people just doing their best to get by. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I clearly state that sometimes people gotta work just to get by and I respect that. But for many of us, especially here on lemmy who tend to be older, this isn't the case. I get that it's a touchy subject, no-one wants to be told they are lazy or that they're living their life wrong, but I believe that there's some truth to it. I don't know what the sollution is, but I think admitting to it a society is the first step. permalink fedilink source parent [–] theshatterstone54@feddit.uk 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Because they need money to survive, and their parents can't help them financially sp they cant get a degree in whatever field, even though every position in the field requires it? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago I mention that sometimes this is the case and there's nothing wrong with that. But you don't necessarily need a degree to do meaningful work or to chase your dreams, just effort. permalink fedilink source parent [–] jtk@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Assistant General Managers are even more serious so the sales people pick on them all the time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] DJDarren@beehaw.org 13 points 2 years ago Assistant to the General Manager. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago Don't you mean assistants TO the general manager? 😉 permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FullOfBallooons@leminal.space 61 points 2 years ago (1 child) Oh god 100%. This isn't a matter of life or death, Nicole. This is a Disney Store in a mid-tier mall. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com -22 points 2 years ago 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 permalink fedilink source parent
[–] regalia@literature.cafe 17 points 2 years ago (1 child) it's actually a blue collar job where they do quite a bit of physical labor, at least the good ones. I have more respect for that then a lot of white collar jobs. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Blake@feddit.uk 25 points 2 years ago (2 children) You probably shouldn’t decide how much to respect someone for what job they do. Unless they do like a really sketchy or immoral “job”, like a hitman or a scammer or something. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [+] essellburns@beehaw.org -9 points 2 years ago* (1 child) I think the only reason to respect someone is for what they do. What better measure is there, even if job is only part of that? better to form my opinion of people for what they do rather than the traditional historical measures. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Blake@feddit.uk 12 points 2 years ago A persons actions are important, but so are personality and motivations. A job isn’t “what someone does because that’s who they are as a person”, it’s the thing that they do because they need to pay their bills. It’s one thing that you know for sure that they have ulterior motives for - money. I respect people for how they act towards me and others. Are they generous, or selfish? Do they admit when they’re wrong, or do they double down on it? When they have power over others, are they cruel, or are they kind? This is way more important than what job someone has. Often, what job someone has only gives you a guesstimate as to how wealthy their parents were, and little beyond that. permalink fedilink source parent [+] barrage4u@lemmy.world -19 points 2 years ago (2 children) Disagree, I think that the way someone decides to spend their time says a lot about them. Sometimes you just need to work for money, I get that, but often times people just do whatever they fell into because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] tehmics@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Dogshit take tbh permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] barrage4u@lemmy.world -13 points 2 years ago (1 child) Clearly touched a nerve permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, gaslighting idiocy tends to touch a nerve when people are trying to have a good faith discussion 🤷 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable. If anything, I stated my opinion and I'm being attacked for it. I'm not trying to play victim, but all the feedback I've gotten from this comment is hostile permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable Really? You think THIS is being reasonable? because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society let me clue you in: it isn't. It's judgmental and makes unfair victim-blaming assumptions. It's no wonder that people react with hostility to such a presumptuous and scornful take on people just doing their best to get by. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I clearly state that sometimes people gotta work just to get by and I respect that. But for many of us, especially here on lemmy who tend to be older, this isn't the case. I get that it's a touchy subject, no-one wants to be told they are lazy or that they're living their life wrong, but I believe that there's some truth to it. I don't know what the sollution is, but I think admitting to it a society is the first step. permalink fedilink source parent [–] theshatterstone54@feddit.uk 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Because they need money to survive, and their parents can't help them financially sp they cant get a degree in whatever field, even though every position in the field requires it? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago I mention that sometimes this is the case and there's nothing wrong with that. But you don't necessarily need a degree to do meaningful work or to chase your dreams, just effort. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Blake@feddit.uk 25 points 2 years ago (2 children) You probably shouldn’t decide how much to respect someone for what job they do. Unless they do like a really sketchy or immoral “job”, like a hitman or a scammer or something. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [+] essellburns@beehaw.org -9 points 2 years ago* (1 child) I think the only reason to respect someone is for what they do. What better measure is there, even if job is only part of that? better to form my opinion of people for what they do rather than the traditional historical measures. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Blake@feddit.uk 12 points 2 years ago A persons actions are important, but so are personality and motivations. A job isn’t “what someone does because that’s who they are as a person”, it’s the thing that they do because they need to pay their bills. It’s one thing that you know for sure that they have ulterior motives for - money. I respect people for how they act towards me and others. Are they generous, or selfish? Do they admit when they’re wrong, or do they double down on it? When they have power over others, are they cruel, or are they kind? This is way more important than what job someone has. Often, what job someone has only gives you a guesstimate as to how wealthy their parents were, and little beyond that. permalink fedilink source parent [+] barrage4u@lemmy.world -19 points 2 years ago (2 children) Disagree, I think that the way someone decides to spend their time says a lot about them. Sometimes you just need to work for money, I get that, but often times people just do whatever they fell into because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] tehmics@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Dogshit take tbh permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] barrage4u@lemmy.world -13 points 2 years ago (1 child) Clearly touched a nerve permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, gaslighting idiocy tends to touch a nerve when people are trying to have a good faith discussion 🤷 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable. If anything, I stated my opinion and I'm being attacked for it. I'm not trying to play victim, but all the feedback I've gotten from this comment is hostile permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable Really? You think THIS is being reasonable? because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society let me clue you in: it isn't. It's judgmental and makes unfair victim-blaming assumptions. It's no wonder that people react with hostility to such a presumptuous and scornful take on people just doing their best to get by. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I clearly state that sometimes people gotta work just to get by and I respect that. But for many of us, especially here on lemmy who tend to be older, this isn't the case. I get that it's a touchy subject, no-one wants to be told they are lazy or that they're living their life wrong, but I believe that there's some truth to it. I don't know what the sollution is, but I think admitting to it a society is the first step. permalink fedilink source parent [–] theshatterstone54@feddit.uk 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Because they need money to survive, and their parents can't help them financially sp they cant get a degree in whatever field, even though every position in the field requires it? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago I mention that sometimes this is the case and there's nothing wrong with that. But you don't necessarily need a degree to do meaningful work or to chase your dreams, just effort. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] essellburns@beehaw.org -9 points 2 years ago* (1 child) I think the only reason to respect someone is for what they do. What better measure is there, even if job is only part of that? better to form my opinion of people for what they do rather than the traditional historical measures. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Blake@feddit.uk 12 points 2 years ago A persons actions are important, but so are personality and motivations. A job isn’t “what someone does because that’s who they are as a person”, it’s the thing that they do because they need to pay their bills. It’s one thing that you know for sure that they have ulterior motives for - money. I respect people for how they act towards me and others. Are they generous, or selfish? Do they admit when they’re wrong, or do they double down on it? When they have power over others, are they cruel, or are they kind? This is way more important than what job someone has. Often, what job someone has only gives you a guesstimate as to how wealthy their parents were, and little beyond that. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Blake@feddit.uk 12 points 2 years ago A persons actions are important, but so are personality and motivations. A job isn’t “what someone does because that’s who they are as a person”, it’s the thing that they do because they need to pay their bills. It’s one thing that you know for sure that they have ulterior motives for - money. I respect people for how they act towards me and others. Are they generous, or selfish? Do they admit when they’re wrong, or do they double down on it? When they have power over others, are they cruel, or are they kind? This is way more important than what job someone has. Often, what job someone has only gives you a guesstimate as to how wealthy their parents were, and little beyond that. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] barrage4u@lemmy.world -19 points 2 years ago (2 children) Disagree, I think that the way someone decides to spend their time says a lot about them. Sometimes you just need to work for money, I get that, but often times people just do whatever they fell into because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] tehmics@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Dogshit take tbh permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] barrage4u@lemmy.world -13 points 2 years ago (1 child) Clearly touched a nerve permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, gaslighting idiocy tends to touch a nerve when people are trying to have a good faith discussion 🤷 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable. If anything, I stated my opinion and I'm being attacked for it. I'm not trying to play victim, but all the feedback I've gotten from this comment is hostile permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable Really? You think THIS is being reasonable? because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society let me clue you in: it isn't. It's judgmental and makes unfair victim-blaming assumptions. It's no wonder that people react with hostility to such a presumptuous and scornful take on people just doing their best to get by. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I clearly state that sometimes people gotta work just to get by and I respect that. But for many of us, especially here on lemmy who tend to be older, this isn't the case. I get that it's a touchy subject, no-one wants to be told they are lazy or that they're living their life wrong, but I believe that there's some truth to it. I don't know what the sollution is, but I think admitting to it a society is the first step. permalink fedilink source parent [–] theshatterstone54@feddit.uk 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Because they need money to survive, and their parents can't help them financially sp they cant get a degree in whatever field, even though every position in the field requires it? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago I mention that sometimes this is the case and there's nothing wrong with that. But you don't necessarily need a degree to do meaningful work or to chase your dreams, just effort. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] tehmics@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Dogshit take tbh permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] barrage4u@lemmy.world -13 points 2 years ago (1 child) Clearly touched a nerve permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, gaslighting idiocy tends to touch a nerve when people are trying to have a good faith discussion 🤷 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable. If anything, I stated my opinion and I'm being attacked for it. I'm not trying to play victim, but all the feedback I've gotten from this comment is hostile permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable Really? You think THIS is being reasonable? because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society let me clue you in: it isn't. It's judgmental and makes unfair victim-blaming assumptions. It's no wonder that people react with hostility to such a presumptuous and scornful take on people just doing their best to get by. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I clearly state that sometimes people gotta work just to get by and I respect that. But for many of us, especially here on lemmy who tend to be older, this isn't the case. I get that it's a touchy subject, no-one wants to be told they are lazy or that they're living their life wrong, but I believe that there's some truth to it. I don't know what the sollution is, but I think admitting to it a society is the first step. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] barrage4u@lemmy.world -13 points 2 years ago (1 child) Clearly touched a nerve permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, gaslighting idiocy tends to touch a nerve when people are trying to have a good faith discussion 🤷 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable. If anything, I stated my opinion and I'm being attacked for it. I'm not trying to play victim, but all the feedback I've gotten from this comment is hostile permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable Really? You think THIS is being reasonable? because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society let me clue you in: it isn't. It's judgmental and makes unfair victim-blaming assumptions. It's no wonder that people react with hostility to such a presumptuous and scornful take on people just doing their best to get by. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I clearly state that sometimes people gotta work just to get by and I respect that. But for many of us, especially here on lemmy who tend to be older, this isn't the case. I get that it's a touchy subject, no-one wants to be told they are lazy or that they're living their life wrong, but I believe that there's some truth to it. I don't know what the sollution is, but I think admitting to it a society is the first step. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, gaslighting idiocy tends to touch a nerve when people are trying to have a good faith discussion 🤷 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable. If anything, I stated my opinion and I'm being attacked for it. I'm not trying to play victim, but all the feedback I've gotten from this comment is hostile permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable Really? You think THIS is being reasonable? because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society let me clue you in: it isn't. It's judgmental and makes unfair victim-blaming assumptions. It's no wonder that people react with hostility to such a presumptuous and scornful take on people just doing their best to get by. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I clearly state that sometimes people gotta work just to get by and I respect that. But for many of us, especially here on lemmy who tend to be older, this isn't the case. I get that it's a touchy subject, no-one wants to be told they are lazy or that they're living their life wrong, but I believe that there's some truth to it. I don't know what the sollution is, but I think admitting to it a society is the first step. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] barrage4u@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable. If anything, I stated my opinion and I'm being attacked for it. I'm not trying to play victim, but all the feedback I've gotten from this comment is hostile permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable Really? You think THIS is being reasonable? because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society let me clue you in: it isn't. It's judgmental and makes unfair victim-blaming assumptions. It's no wonder that people react with hostility to such a presumptuous and scornful take on people just doing their best to get by. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I clearly state that sometimes people gotta work just to get by and I respect that. But for many of us, especially here on lemmy who tend to be older, this isn't the case. I get that it's a touchy subject, no-one wants to be told they are lazy or that they're living their life wrong, but I believe that there's some truth to it. I don't know what the sollution is, but I think admitting to it a society is the first step. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think I'm being pretty reasonable Really? You think THIS is being reasonable? because they're too lazy to chase their dreams or do something actually beneficial for society let me clue you in: it isn't. It's judgmental and makes unfair victim-blaming assumptions. It's no wonder that people react with hostility to such a presumptuous and scornful take on people just doing their best to get by. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I clearly state that sometimes people gotta work just to get by and I respect that. But for many of us, especially here on lemmy who tend to be older, this isn't the case. I get that it's a touchy subject, no-one wants to be told they are lazy or that they're living their life wrong, but I believe that there's some truth to it. I don't know what the sollution is, but I think admitting to it a society is the first step. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I clearly state that sometimes people gotta work just to get by and I respect that. But for many of us, especially here on lemmy who tend to be older, this isn't the case. I get that it's a touchy subject, no-one wants to be told they are lazy or that they're living their life wrong, but I believe that there's some truth to it. I don't know what the sollution is, but I think admitting to it a society is the first step. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] theshatterstone54@feddit.uk 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Because they need money to survive, and their parents can't help them financially sp they cant get a degree in whatever field, even though every position in the field requires it? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago I mention that sometimes this is the case and there's nothing wrong with that. But you don't necessarily need a degree to do meaningful work or to chase your dreams, just effort. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] barrage4u@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago I mention that sometimes this is the case and there's nothing wrong with that. But you don't necessarily need a degree to do meaningful work or to chase your dreams, just effort. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jtk@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Assistant General Managers are even more serious so the sales people pick on them all the time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] DJDarren@beehaw.org 13 points 2 years ago Assistant to the General Manager. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago Don't you mean assistants TO the general manager? 😉 permalink fedilink source parent
[–] DJDarren@beehaw.org 13 points 2 years ago Assistant to the General Manager. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago Don't you mean assistants TO the general manager? 😉 permalink fedilink source parent