▲ 188 ▼ Egg🖥irl [Transfem] (lemmy.world) submitted 2 years ago by TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world to c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 32 comments fedilink hide all child comments Where are you rn fellow girls?
[–] Jesus_666@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (2 children) Also, once you realize you're an enby you kinda live in several of these stages at once. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] luciferofastora@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 years ago Denial ("I feel comfortable being addressed and seen as a guy, so I can't be enby") Anger ("Why do people always ignore the 'it' in 'it/he'?") Bargaining ("I just care a lot about respecting pronouns, so that's why I get upset. I'm just doing this to add to enby visibility, because I don't really mind.") Depression ("I suppose people just don't like referring to humans with pronouns normay used for objects, that's just how it is") Acceptance ("Okay I definitely feel good about being called 'it', so I'm probably agender") Bargaining again ("Maybe I'm some in-between? Not really cis, but not really enby either?") Proceeds to cycle between Denial, Bargaining, Acceptance and Bargaining again, with Anger and Depression playing a constant tug-of-war as backdrop Insert meme of mother yelling at her kid "Why can't you just be normal", but it's me yelling at my Identity "Why can't you just be simple" permalink fedilink source parent [–] FirstMajesticComet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago I mostly exist beyond this menial earthly scale but do on occasion return to anger and depression quite frequently. Mostly due to being purposefully misgendered. I'm not a girl, and not transfem, I don't have a gender Denial was never a thing I went through, ever, I am indeed happy and comfortable with being called a boy, even though I'm not really. I still say I'm a femboy because that describes my experience of dressing up and being cute. Doesn't mean I am a boy. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] luciferofastora@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 years ago Denial ("I feel comfortable being addressed and seen as a guy, so I can't be enby") Anger ("Why do people always ignore the 'it' in 'it/he'?") Bargaining ("I just care a lot about respecting pronouns, so that's why I get upset. I'm just doing this to add to enby visibility, because I don't really mind.") Depression ("I suppose people just don't like referring to humans with pronouns normay used for objects, that's just how it is") Acceptance ("Okay I definitely feel good about being called 'it', so I'm probably agender") Bargaining again ("Maybe I'm some in-between? Not really cis, but not really enby either?") Proceeds to cycle between Denial, Bargaining, Acceptance and Bargaining again, with Anger and Depression playing a constant tug-of-war as backdrop Insert meme of mother yelling at her kid "Why can't you just be normal", but it's me yelling at my Identity "Why can't you just be simple" permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FirstMajesticComet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago I mostly exist beyond this menial earthly scale but do on occasion return to anger and depression quite frequently. Mostly due to being purposefully misgendered. I'm not a girl, and not transfem, I don't have a gender Denial was never a thing I went through, ever, I am indeed happy and comfortable with being called a boy, even though I'm not really. I still say I'm a femboy because that describes my experience of dressing up and being cute. Doesn't mean I am a boy. permalink fedilink source parent