you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] 175 points 2 years ago (6 children)

As a tall man who likes to walk at night, I have long understood that women alone at night do not wish to encounter me. So when I happen to find myself following a woman down the street, I will either slow down, cross the street, or stop and look at a sign or something for a minute to give her some space.

In a dangerous and shitty world, a person has to find subtle and quiet ways to express care, compassion, and solidarity. It costs me nothing to make a woman feel safer.

  • source
  • hideshow 12 child comments
  • [–] 17 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    While working i am occasionally in parking garages which can be dark and creepy. If i see a woman walking alone I'll try to make some noise like pulling out my keys. People with bad intentions will be stealthy, hopefully they get that I'm not a threat

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [+] -36 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)
  • [–] 14 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    He's not a "Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pussy"

    He's a man making sure women feel a little safer.

    Using the word "SIMP" in this context runs counter to every example of protective familymen I've ever seen. Derision against his behavior is as good as calling yourself a creep, a predator, an enemy of all that is good and right.

    You have the morals of an opportunistic thug ... yet I have no doubt you think yourself some kind of faithful man

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] 13 points 2 years ago

    Eh possibly, but many of the women I've slept with have told me that I make them feel safe and that it's a huge turn on for them. Shocking, I know, that people might want to feel secure before they get intimate.

  • source
  • parent