This is why you should have three lemmy accounts: One to upvote, one to downvote, and one to do neither.

Upvote, downvote, leftvote, rightvote?

Interestingly, both, and neither do the same thing here.

I think I've eliminated the "[well, ]actually" from my speech patterns (unless using it sparingly for comedic effect) due to the memes as well. Turns out the dumb internet image macros can have a positive impact after all.

Just omit either "well" or "actually". Maybe swap both for "surprisingly" or "unfortunately" depending on the context of the correction. I understand the struggle :(