Thanks man, I feel incredibly lucky. He messaged me this morning and I made a Ghostbusters reference that probably made me sound like a retard. I'm so far removed from a power top I'm afraid I might have the same problems with him as I do with girls. I could fuck his ass, maybe fist him, choke him a little, but all the while I'd be in awe of how cute he is and doing infantile things because really I want a cutie to top me. I hope there aren't other misunderstandings. I'm not a chastity bottom and I do like dicks, but I'm afraid of getting too deep into the philosophy of gender with him. He could easily pass for a cis girl, and I'm terribly worried that he's sensitive like one.