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Can't get that metallic taste out of my mouth (slrpnk.net)
submitted 2 years ago by to c/lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world
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[+] 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)
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  • [–] 1 point 2 years ago (1 child)

    disappointed dɪsəˈpɔɪntɪd

    adjective

    1. sad or displeased because someone or something has failed to fulfil one's hopes or expectations.
    2. (of hopes or expectations) prevented from being realized.

    Here saved you a Google search lmao 😂

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  • [–] -2 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    No I'm saying that using that term implies an expectation for those women that they are failing to meet. I am asking why he has an expectation for random women to not get those piercings. Re-read my comment omg 🙄

    You also accused me of not knowing how to speak English while seemingly not understanding what the word dissappointed means.

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  • [–] -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children)

    He didn't say someone in particular. He said he was "disappointed so many girls" are getting those piercings. That doesn't imply specific women, it implies women in general.

    It's fine for him not to like them, I'm calling out his use of language and how it implies that all women are beholden to some expectation he has for them.

    The rest of your comment is genuinely bizarre and I have no idea what you're even talking about. Read through the comment tree again. I never said anything about who the commenter was. Just calling out something he said and the implication inherent in it.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    and we're calling out your use of language and the implication inherent in it.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Youre mischaracterizing what I said as though I made some comment about the commenter having preferences. Which is not and never was what I said.

    If you're going to call out something I said and the implication in it, at least tell me what I said that you're calling out and what the implication was in what I said.

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  • [–] -1 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    He used the word dissappontment holy shit do you not know what the word means??

    He used that word I'm no fucking misinterpreting him lmao

    I never said people shouldn't have opinions on fashion choices omfg I was literally calling out his framing of that opinion 😂 yall are tripping omg haha

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  • [–] 3 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    you don't like that he doesn't like piercings? You sound fragile.

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  • [–] -2 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    That's not what I said. I questioned why he said he is disappointed with what random women are doing with their bodies. I can paste the definition of the word here if you don't know what it means.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    What makes my member engorged is seeing women with giant ear lobes. I am disappointed that I don't see more of them / that more women don't have giant ear lobes dragging on the ground.

    Why I am disappointed? Because I think the world needs more beauty, and I like having my member engorged, and giant, floppy earlobes do both things.

    Now, if you are going to twist my words into claiming that I think all women should have their ears flapping loosely in the wind, that is where you are having problems.

    In your world, disappointment is something that must be fixed and corrected. Well, I'm sorry to say, but much like your sexual partners, disappointment is something we all have to learn to live with.

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  • [–] -2 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I'm not upset with the concept of disappointment. I'm calling out the fact that saying he's disappointed with women for having piercings is a statement about how women's bodies should be. It's saying that women are beholden to an expectation of how their bodies should be, and that when they have nipple piercings they are failing to meet his expectations of them.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 years ago

    Why do you focus on the word "expectations"? The definition you yourself posted in this thread clearly mentions "hopes OR expectations". I think the use of the term "disappointment" in this case refers to the "hopes" part. You can hope for something from someone without expecting it from them.

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