Just saying that if the LGBTQI+ community doesnt like a word, it very quickly becomes unacceptable to use. But if I dont like a word I get told to suck it up because thats what I am...

"When a marginalized group doesn't like being called something deliberately hurtful, it becomes unacceptable. But how come no one cares that I don't like how a word sounds phonetically?? That's the same!!"