OP's exploring unfamiliar territory and doesn't have clinical/conversational vocabulary for it yet, which isn't too surprising considering growing services like Lemmy are bound to attract all kinds of people eventually. We shouldn't gatekeep info because of crude language, and as a bi guy I don't think they said anything explicitly hateful here.

Interesting how anyone could consider a simple question about sexual activity hateful. And even more interesting that the "offended" person would comment on it.

This guy's mind will explode when he learns about pegging.

If you jack it while you're getting fucked, the extra stimulation leads to a massively hard orgasm, too. Also I don't know if this is a thing for a lot of guys, but if I'm fucked just right, I get this full-body orgasm that is just insane.