I hate this bullshit me versus them attitude everybody's bringing over from Reddit.

Did you stop to consider that just because somebody is a member of an instance doesn't necessarily mean they are part of the issues with the instance. I didn't go stalk this users comments or posts but it seems egregious to just see 'hexbear' and assume that user is on par with your concerns.

I'm part of lemmy.zip, which as I understand it, has a lot more trans folks than other instances. Does that make me trans? Yes: by your bullshit preliminary assumption policy. Meanwhile, I'm not.