โฒ 5 โผ What's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one? (lemmy.ml) submitted 3 years ago by Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml 48 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[โ] croobat@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) Setting up boundaries. permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [โ] mbryson@lemmy.ca 1 point 3 years ago Massive one. People automatically assume those who have defined areas that others are not allowed to access (ie personal/physical contact, topics of communication, literal areas they restrict in their home, etc) are prudish and being willfully obstinate for unfounded reasons, without considering why these boundaries are set in the first place. The second you inconvenience someone, they assume you're the problem. permalink fedilink source parent
[โ] mbryson@lemmy.ca 1 point 3 years ago Massive one. People automatically assume those who have defined areas that others are not allowed to access (ie personal/physical contact, topics of communication, literal areas they restrict in their home, etc) are prudish and being willfully obstinate for unfounded reasons, without considering why these boundaries are set in the first place. The second you inconvenience someone, they assume you're the problem. permalink fedilink source parent