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Why do people keep asking where I'm from? (lemmy.ca)
submitted 2 years ago* by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
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Up until I started working, I didn't really encounter that question. When I did start working, people started asking me that question.

Them: Where are you from?

Me: Canada.

Them: Where are your grandparents from?

Me: Canada.

Them: Ok, where are your great grandparents from?

Me: Canada.

It's irritating sometimes. I just want to exist, do my job and go home, like anyone else. Once is ok, twice is odd, three times is weird, and the fourth time is a pattern.

The only accent that I might have would probably be from Newfoundland, Canada, as I grew up with a lot of people from there. I also talk too fast sometimes.

Have you had similar experiences, and if so, how did you handle it? Can fast speech patterns cause this? Why do random people care so much?

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[–] 90 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Asking where you are from is pretty normal conversation, especially if you have a noticeable accent. Asking where your parents/grandparents/etc are from is less common. Are you by chance not-white? Sometimes these sorts of questions have a race element to them

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  • [–] 37 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Yeah, asking where someone's from is completely normal but asking where their parents/family is from automatically sets off some racism red flags

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  • [–] 0 points 2 years ago

    Asking where someone’s from is already racist. As white, no one ask me where I am from, or only in late conversation for specific reason. My non-white wife get this question every single time she met a new person.

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  • [–] [S] 22 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    I think I look pretty white, tbh

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