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[serious] What are your most important boundaries you've learned to enforce? (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
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Nobody tells me what I'm going to do or where I will be going and when that happens

I am open to invitations or requests or suggestions where my involvement is desired or ostensibly necesary for somone else. But I will never respond to this as a statement of fact or in the form of a threat

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[โ€“] [S] 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Gaslighting is deadly and I vigorously/instantly shut it down whenever I perceive or sense it. It is emotional rape, pure and simple, and the REDDEST of flags ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿฅ€

Its been interesting engaging with people I know now that everyone is aware we don't mix factual and feelings-based conversations.

Much nicer when we know what's debatable or negotiable and what is off-limits.

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