▲ 94 ▼ What's something about you that you find difficult to deal with? (lemmy.world) submitted 2 years ago by toomanypancakes@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world 108 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 23 points 2 years ago (1 child) My codependency. I completely rely on others for my own validity. If people are busy/don't want to hang, it really upsets me. I know it burns out my closest friends. I talk to most of them daily and over analyze the fuck out of our friendship if they get busy/distracted. I'm honestly lucky I still have the ones I do. I'm also starting my first therapy session on 31 Jan so I don't lose the people I have in my life. permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MorrisonMotel6@lemm.ee 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) The fact you're aware of that is huge! You're on your way! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Bruh Lemmy is so fucking supportive and wholesome. Thank you! I will admit tho, it's taken me until my mid-thirties to hit this point, and there are many relationships from my past that I wish I could have saved. Can't dwell there though, gotta save the ones I have now and be the best wife I can be for my husband (and the best me I can be for myself!) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MorrisonMotel6@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago I 100% believe you've got this. You're 90% of the way there already. You have identified a problem, determined the source of the problem, determined the problem's current and probable effects in your lives and the lives of others, identified several solutions, and have a plan in place. All you need is the methodology for solving this problem (which you already have on the calendar). You're so close! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MorrisonMotel6@lemm.ee 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) The fact you're aware of that is huge! You're on your way! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Bruh Lemmy is so fucking supportive and wholesome. Thank you! I will admit tho, it's taken me until my mid-thirties to hit this point, and there are many relationships from my past that I wish I could have saved. Can't dwell there though, gotta save the ones I have now and be the best wife I can be for my husband (and the best me I can be for myself!) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MorrisonMotel6@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago I 100% believe you've got this. You're 90% of the way there already. You have identified a problem, determined the source of the problem, determined the problem's current and probable effects in your lives and the lives of others, identified several solutions, and have a plan in place. All you need is the methodology for solving this problem (which you already have on the calendar). You're so close! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] AquaTofana@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Bruh Lemmy is so fucking supportive and wholesome. Thank you! I will admit tho, it's taken me until my mid-thirties to hit this point, and there are many relationships from my past that I wish I could have saved. Can't dwell there though, gotta save the ones I have now and be the best wife I can be for my husband (and the best me I can be for myself!) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MorrisonMotel6@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago I 100% believe you've got this. You're 90% of the way there already. You have identified a problem, determined the source of the problem, determined the problem's current and probable effects in your lives and the lives of others, identified several solutions, and have a plan in place. All you need is the methodology for solving this problem (which you already have on the calendar). You're so close! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MorrisonMotel6@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago I 100% believe you've got this. You're 90% of the way there already. You have identified a problem, determined the source of the problem, determined the problem's current and probable effects in your lives and the lives of others, identified several solutions, and have a plan in place. All you need is the methodology for solving this problem (which you already have on the calendar). You're so close! permalink fedilink source parent