▲ 949 ▼ Self-help (lemmy.dbzer0.com) submitted 2 years ago by db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com [M] to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 65 comments fedilink hide all child comments Source
[–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 111 points 2 years ago (3 children) first draft is done The most unrealistic part of this comic lol permalink fedilink source hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 25 points 2 years ago (3 children) I'm sorry for posting actual self-help, it's not my intention to be toxic, but your mention of "first draft" has triggered a kind of fixed action pattern in me, where I am compelled to share this axiom that I find reassuring: The first draft is always perfect. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 years ago (1 child) Oh I didn’t intend on taking a shot at anyone. It was just some glib commentary on how we often struggle to even start doing things. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 years ago You're good. I didn't think you were, just know that self-help can be toxic, so didn't want anyone to think I was actually advocating for rah rah bootstraps manifest this mind over matter that, etc permalink fedilink source parent [+] vsh@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago Which part? permalink fedilink source parent [–] olutukko@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago This actually made me feel bettee. I have to print this on my wall so when my elaborate idea doesnt turn out perfect on first try I can remember it's not supposed to be perfect permalink fedilink source parent [–] kozy138@lemm.ee 14 points 2 years ago Not if you consider that is the first and final draft at the same time lol permalink fedilink source parent [–] OwlYaYeet@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago 😂😭 permalink fedilink source parent
[–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 25 points 2 years ago (3 children) I'm sorry for posting actual self-help, it's not my intention to be toxic, but your mention of "first draft" has triggered a kind of fixed action pattern in me, where I am compelled to share this axiom that I find reassuring: The first draft is always perfect. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 years ago (1 child) Oh I didn’t intend on taking a shot at anyone. It was just some glib commentary on how we often struggle to even start doing things. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 years ago You're good. I didn't think you were, just know that self-help can be toxic, so didn't want anyone to think I was actually advocating for rah rah bootstraps manifest this mind over matter that, etc permalink fedilink source parent [+] vsh@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago Which part? permalink fedilink source parent [–] olutukko@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago This actually made me feel bettee. I have to print this on my wall so when my elaborate idea doesnt turn out perfect on first try I can remember it's not supposed to be perfect permalink fedilink source parent
[–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 years ago (1 child) Oh I didn’t intend on taking a shot at anyone. It was just some glib commentary on how we often struggle to even start doing things. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 years ago You're good. I didn't think you were, just know that self-help can be toxic, so didn't want anyone to think I was actually advocating for rah rah bootstraps manifest this mind over matter that, etc permalink fedilink source parent
[–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 years ago You're good. I didn't think you were, just know that self-help can be toxic, so didn't want anyone to think I was actually advocating for rah rah bootstraps manifest this mind over matter that, etc permalink fedilink source parent
[+] vsh@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago Which part? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago Which part? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] olutukko@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago This actually made me feel bettee. I have to print this on my wall so when my elaborate idea doesnt turn out perfect on first try I can remember it's not supposed to be perfect permalink fedilink source parent
[–] kozy138@lemm.ee 14 points 2 years ago Not if you consider that is the first and final draft at the same time lol permalink fedilink source parent