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What caused your last break up? (programming.dev)
submitted 3 years ago by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
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[โ€“] 18 points 3 years ago (1 child)

I am childfree, she wasn't. 100% not going to work, but we ended on good terms all things ocnsidered.

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  • [โ€“] 2 points 3 years ago (2 children)

    Just wondering what about her having kids was a deal breaker for you?

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  • [โ€“] 11 points 3 years ago

    She didn't have kids already, but she wanted to have them in the future. I absolutely do not want kids, I even got a vasectomy in my early 20s.

    It's not really an issue you can compromise on as a couple, so it was better to part amicably than pursue something with no future, for both of our sakes.

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  • [โ€“] 5 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    I find the question weird.

    1. Maybe she didn't have children but wanted them, that also qualifies as non-childfree.
    2. Why is inconceivable for you not wanting kids and not wanting to be with someone who does?
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