β² 786 βΌ Offering solutions is annoying (lemmy.world) submitted 2 years ago by blahsay@lemmy.world to c/comicstrips@lemmy.world 135 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[β] JigglySackles@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Sometimes people just want to talk about what they are going through. There's nothing wrong with that. If they want help solving it, they will ask. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Ok but getting upset if a solution is offered because "can't you just listen to meβ½" Is well beyond fair to whoever you have conscripted as your sounding board. At that point it's not just venting about what you're going through, it's attacking them for daring to empathize in a way you didn't tell them you didn't want. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] spittingimage@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago Huh. An interrobang in the wild. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Ok but getting upset if a solution is offered because "can't you just listen to meβ½" Is well beyond fair to whoever you have conscripted as your sounding board. At that point it's not just venting about what you're going through, it's attacking them for daring to empathize in a way you didn't tell them you didn't want. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [β] spittingimage@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago Huh. An interrobang in the wild. permalink fedilink source parent
[β] spittingimage@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago Huh. An interrobang in the wild. permalink fedilink source parent