▲ 79 ▼ What’s a painful experience you haven’t had in years? (lemmy.world) submitted 3 years ago by Lemmylefty@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml 83 comments fedilink hide all child comments Question inspired by a Charley horse that hit in the middle of the night.
[–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 37 points 3 years ago (2 children) Heartbreak permalink fedilink source hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Cubes@lemm.ee 8 points 3 years ago (1 child) Maybe one day I'll get there too, but not today permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 years ago You will I promise :) I’ve had my heart broken badly 3 times in my life so far. The first one I needed antidepressants to kick me out of the slump, the other two were hard as well but with time and distractions and new hobbies and interests, the pain fades. Just be patient and talk to yourself like you are your own little brother/sister. Treat yourself like another person and take care of that person. Give them the love they need to get through the heartbreak. permalink fedilink source parent [–] SEND_BUTTPLUG_PICS@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago I came here to say the same thing. When someone close to you dies it's painful, but that's still not heartbreaking. When someone you love chooses not to be with you anymore, it's on another level. I hope to never experience heartbreak again. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Cubes@lemm.ee 8 points 3 years ago (1 child) Maybe one day I'll get there too, but not today permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 years ago You will I promise :) I’ve had my heart broken badly 3 times in my life so far. The first one I needed antidepressants to kick me out of the slump, the other two were hard as well but with time and distractions and new hobbies and interests, the pain fades. Just be patient and talk to yourself like you are your own little brother/sister. Treat yourself like another person and take care of that person. Give them the love they need to get through the heartbreak. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 years ago You will I promise :) I’ve had my heart broken badly 3 times in my life so far. The first one I needed antidepressants to kick me out of the slump, the other two were hard as well but with time and distractions and new hobbies and interests, the pain fades. Just be patient and talk to yourself like you are your own little brother/sister. Treat yourself like another person and take care of that person. Give them the love they need to get through the heartbreak. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SEND_BUTTPLUG_PICS@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago I came here to say the same thing. When someone close to you dies it's painful, but that's still not heartbreaking. When someone you love chooses not to be with you anymore, it's on another level. I hope to never experience heartbreak again. permalink fedilink source parent