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[–] Hextic@lemmy.world 111 points 3 years ago (2 children) I bet cash money that husband has a secret Grindr account. permalink fedilink source hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 54 points 3 years ago (1 child) Safest bet in the world, husband is gayer than a unicorn fart permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] charliespider@lemmy.ca 49 points 3 years ago (7 children) Claiming that someone's homophobia is because they are secretly gay is ultimately blaming the gays for said homophobia. It's also entirely possible that someone is just a hateful piece of shit. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 17 points 3 years ago Gold medal in mental acrobatics, damn permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lemmylefty@lemmy.world 16 points 3 years ago Women can be sexist and nonwhite people can be racist: being a member of a marginalized group unfortunately doesn’t inherently keep someone from perpetuating the discrimination against said group. It’s absolutely true that a lot of, and definitely the majority, of homophobic people are straight, but a lot of the terror-based homophobia stems from projection. permalink fedilink source parent [–] DulyNoted@lemmy.world 15 points 3 years ago Unfortunately, being gay isn't a panacea, and one can be both gay and a huge piece of shit. permalink fedilink source parent [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (1 child) I get what you're saying. But usually it's really they are a hateful piece of shit because they are secretly gay. The loudest ones tend to be the most secretly what they are yelling about. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 1 point 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 child) Well, that's just because you're Im an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 11 points 3 years ago (2 children) … i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 5 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize That's embarrassing permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago haha it’s all good permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lokisan@lemmy.fmhy.net 3 points 3 years ago* no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia. permalink fedilink source parent [–] duh@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago Yeah, he may be just a POS, but he seems to think so hard in what looks gay or not... looks like he's hiding. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CombatWombat1212@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago ?? It's blaming a gay person for being homophobic, by what logic does it apply to all of them? permalink fedilink source parent [–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 years ago Um, I'd argue that it's blaming the people that drive others to subvert their own tendencies, e.g. the gay-is-icky crowd of which the Christian national movement is a subset. If gay was truly okay, and we didn't have guys who felt pressured to be alpha masc, then no-one would blink twice when a toddler liked flowers and rainbows. permalink fedilink source parent [–] diskmaster23@lemmy.one 2 points 3 years ago Cash money, now? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 54 points 3 years ago (1 child) Safest bet in the world, husband is gayer than a unicorn fart permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] charliespider@lemmy.ca 49 points 3 years ago (7 children) Claiming that someone's homophobia is because they are secretly gay is ultimately blaming the gays for said homophobia. It's also entirely possible that someone is just a hateful piece of shit. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 17 points 3 years ago Gold medal in mental acrobatics, damn permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lemmylefty@lemmy.world 16 points 3 years ago Women can be sexist and nonwhite people can be racist: being a member of a marginalized group unfortunately doesn’t inherently keep someone from perpetuating the discrimination against said group. It’s absolutely true that a lot of, and definitely the majority, of homophobic people are straight, but a lot of the terror-based homophobia stems from projection. permalink fedilink source parent [–] DulyNoted@lemmy.world 15 points 3 years ago Unfortunately, being gay isn't a panacea, and one can be both gay and a huge piece of shit. permalink fedilink source parent [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (1 child) I get what you're saying. But usually it's really they are a hateful piece of shit because they are secretly gay. The loudest ones tend to be the most secretly what they are yelling about. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 1 point 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 child) Well, that's just because you're Im an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 11 points 3 years ago (2 children) … i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 5 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize That's embarrassing permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago haha it’s all good permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lokisan@lemmy.fmhy.net 3 points 3 years ago* no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia. permalink fedilink source parent [–] duh@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago Yeah, he may be just a POS, but he seems to think so hard in what looks gay or not... looks like he's hiding. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CombatWombat1212@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago ?? It's blaming a gay person for being homophobic, by what logic does it apply to all of them? permalink fedilink source parent [–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 years ago Um, I'd argue that it's blaming the people that drive others to subvert their own tendencies, e.g. the gay-is-icky crowd of which the Christian national movement is a subset. If gay was truly okay, and we didn't have guys who felt pressured to be alpha masc, then no-one would blink twice when a toddler liked flowers and rainbows. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] charliespider@lemmy.ca 49 points 3 years ago (7 children) Claiming that someone's homophobia is because they are secretly gay is ultimately blaming the gays for said homophobia. It's also entirely possible that someone is just a hateful piece of shit. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 17 points 3 years ago Gold medal in mental acrobatics, damn permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lemmylefty@lemmy.world 16 points 3 years ago Women can be sexist and nonwhite people can be racist: being a member of a marginalized group unfortunately doesn’t inherently keep someone from perpetuating the discrimination against said group. It’s absolutely true that a lot of, and definitely the majority, of homophobic people are straight, but a lot of the terror-based homophobia stems from projection. permalink fedilink source parent [–] DulyNoted@lemmy.world 15 points 3 years ago Unfortunately, being gay isn't a panacea, and one can be both gay and a huge piece of shit. permalink fedilink source parent [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (1 child) I get what you're saying. But usually it's really they are a hateful piece of shit because they are secretly gay. The loudest ones tend to be the most secretly what they are yelling about. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 1 point 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 child) Well, that's just because you're Im an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 11 points 3 years ago (2 children) … i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 5 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize That's embarrassing permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago haha it’s all good permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lokisan@lemmy.fmhy.net 3 points 3 years ago* no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia. permalink fedilink source parent [–] duh@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago Yeah, he may be just a POS, but he seems to think so hard in what looks gay or not... looks like he's hiding. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CombatWombat1212@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago ?? It's blaming a gay person for being homophobic, by what logic does it apply to all of them? permalink fedilink source parent [–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 years ago Um, I'd argue that it's blaming the people that drive others to subvert their own tendencies, e.g. the gay-is-icky crowd of which the Christian national movement is a subset. If gay was truly okay, and we didn't have guys who felt pressured to be alpha masc, then no-one would blink twice when a toddler liked flowers and rainbows. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 17 points 3 years ago Gold medal in mental acrobatics, damn permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lemmylefty@lemmy.world 16 points 3 years ago Women can be sexist and nonwhite people can be racist: being a member of a marginalized group unfortunately doesn’t inherently keep someone from perpetuating the discrimination against said group. It’s absolutely true that a lot of, and definitely the majority, of homophobic people are straight, but a lot of the terror-based homophobia stems from projection. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] DulyNoted@lemmy.world 15 points 3 years ago Unfortunately, being gay isn't a panacea, and one can be both gay and a huge piece of shit. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (1 child) I get what you're saying. But usually it's really they are a hateful piece of shit because they are secretly gay. The loudest ones tend to be the most secretly what they are yelling about. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 1 point 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 child) Well, that's just because you're Im an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 11 points 3 years ago (2 children) … i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 5 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize That's embarrassing permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago haha it’s all good permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lokisan@lemmy.fmhy.net 3 points 3 years ago* no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 1 point 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 child) Well, that's just because you're Im an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 11 points 3 years ago (2 children) … i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 5 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize That's embarrassing permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago haha it’s all good permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lokisan@lemmy.fmhy.net 3 points 3 years ago* no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 1 point 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 child) Well, that's just because you're Im an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 11 points 3 years ago (2 children) … i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 5 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize That's embarrassing permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago haha it’s all good permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lokisan@lemmy.fmhy.net 3 points 3 years ago* no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 11 points 3 years ago (2 children) … i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 5 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize That's embarrassing permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago haha it’s all good permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lokisan@lemmy.fmhy.net 3 points 3 years ago* no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 5 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize That's embarrassing permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] WhyIsItReal@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago haha it’s all good permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lokisan@lemmy.fmhy.net 3 points 3 years ago* no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] duh@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago Yeah, he may be just a POS, but he seems to think so hard in what looks gay or not... looks like he's hiding. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CombatWombat1212@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago ?? It's blaming a gay person for being homophobic, by what logic does it apply to all of them? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 3 years ago Um, I'd argue that it's blaming the people that drive others to subvert their own tendencies, e.g. the gay-is-icky crowd of which the Christian national movement is a subset. If gay was truly okay, and we didn't have guys who felt pressured to be alpha masc, then no-one would blink twice when a toddler liked flowers and rainbows. permalink fedilink source parent