I've given up on paper because my commander deck would cost a silly amount to update to the current year of "gotta go fast" play, so I stick to arena and play brawl. I absolutely detest the weird secret deck rating system they use to find matches, it is baffling. Part of me wants to give cockatrice a proper effort to learn but my last experience was everyone secretly just wants to play modern 3 turn win combos or whatever under the guise of commander which... is not fun.
I do miss FnM but where I live there is just zero scene for it sadly.